Ok, so...
Two years ago I met a guy (we will call him K) in my confirmation class. We were like
BAM! instant friends. After awhile, I started to like him. He found out and told me that He would never like me. Like I said, this was two years ago and maturing has been done on both sides. Soon after, my brother was diagnosed with cancer. K helped me thru the entire ordeal. He was my shoulder to cry on, the person I would always vent to and, best of all, always put a smile on my face. After a looooong battle with the cancer (which is gone now), we get the news that K's family is moving 500 miles away two months from now. During those two years, I developed a love for him like nothing else I've ever loved before. It's a little romantic love but I do not see him as an object of lust. This is not just teen infatuation. I cannot see myself being with anyone else for the rest of my life except for him. This kind of love is like, if he ends up with someone else for the rest of his life, as long as he's happy, i will be too. Here's where things get a little interesting. Over the weekend, my church did a camp out fundraiser thing called the 30 hour famine (google it, its really cool!). K was there and so was my other friend who is a girl (we'll call her D). I was expecting a lot of time with K bc when my church does things like this, we always hang out with each other. But no.... D has a crush on K. He ended up spending the entire weekend with her. While we were sitting out by the fire, I was leaning on his shoulder, but D came up and scared us with like a frog thing so I jumped up... and lost my spot. She just sat right down and leaned on his shoulder almost all night, except when they were talking walks around the grounds together. It was heartbreaking. I only have two months left with K and D hogs him all to herself like I don't exist. I was so beside myself when I got home. I can't even imagine what I will be like when K leaves for real... But I'm looking for some advice on what to do about both people. Sorry this is such a long post but I really do need the advice.
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