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MrCuddlesy

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PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2009 11:13 pm


Alright, I need some serious help guys. And I'll try not to break down while I type. Anyway, I've been a Mormon for two years now. I've fallen in love with this religion because for once in my life, it feels like I found something that's true and stable for me. I have had some discussions with friends who aren't Mormons and I've tried to explain things correctly. Except every time the topic of religion is brought up, I get nervous and scared, mainly because I'm afraid I'll say something wrong or they'll get mad and end the friendship. And I'll admit, I had a friend judge me, saying that (and she's anti-Twilight) since I'm Mormon, like Stephenie Meyer, I'll end up as bad as her. We haven't talked for a couple weeks now, she won't talk to me. But, I've got a friend I've been talking to. I won't say names. Anyway, he's in the army and he's in Japan, and the more we talk, the more I grow to like him and vise versa. Except....he's not Mormon. I want to ask him about our religion, but I'm scared that if I bring it up now that things will get awkward between us and our friendship will start to disappear. And not only that, but one of my friends suggested that maybe he was brought into my life to bring me back to the Baptist religion. Is it to soon to bring it up or am I just a coward?
PostPosted: Sun May 10, 2009 1:43 pm


Well, first I would suggest you pray about it. Praying can never go wrong biggrin

Other than that, just go with what you feel. If you truly care about him, then I'm sure you will need to talk about it sometime, but that time is completely up to you.

Hope this has been of some kind of help for you!

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PostPosted: Sun May 10, 2009 9:46 pm


Hmmm... I have to agree that you pray about it. never goes wrong there. Then do something. faith is action and you have to do something.
It's normal to be scared when trying to talk religion to those you care about. Heh, I've had a friend since 8th grade I know I should share somethings with but am still too scared to tell her much about my faith (talked about somethings, but mostly I want to refer her to missionaries anonymously). Thing is when you try to talk to them about it, follow the spirit and not necessarily a planed speech. If you don't have the answer for them off the top of your head, call someone on your cell (girl in my ward did this and got the answer she needed from the 1st councilor's wife). It's alright not to know everything, but remember you know enough. And it's true. That should be enough for you.

I have a sister currently in japan. I'll ask her what her ward is or the missionary's number is for that area if you like. And I know a few RMs from japan too so if you want help that way... *shrug*

What's wrong with Stephanie Myers anyway? Don't follow celebs and don't read twilight either (comedy adventures with dragons is my faves, teen vamp romances... meh...) so I have no idea what's wrong with being like her.

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PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2009 4:32 am


Thanks so much guys. Yeah, I have been praying about this. A lot, I'll admit.

Glimare: Thanks a lot for the missionary option. I'll keep that in mind, but I don't want to bring it on too soon. If you know what I mean? I will definitely remember that though. Thank you so much for the option. *hugs*
I don't know. I think she's good and all. Her books aren't my fave but they're pretty good. I don't know what's up with her, she's got an obsession about destroying her career and all.
And thanx, lol. Those are my favorite buttons.

Thank you so much for the advice, guys. I talked to him about it and things have worked out. He doesn't like me any less and says its cool. *hugs all around* I just hope things keep working out. I really do like this guy.

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PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2009 2:40 am


Glad it's working out! 3nodding
PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2009 8:27 pm


That's awesome for you, congrats.

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