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 Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:58 pm
So as the title says I can't get myself to c**. My boyfriend loves to give me oral sex and while it feels great I can't seem to c**, let alone orgasm. Like..I feel my body building up the pressure and then I have to make him stop or I just hold it in. When I try to relax I'm worried that it's pee, though I know otherwise. Is there anyway to help this problem? It really bothers him that he can't make me c** and I feel bad myself for not being able to give him that satisfaction.
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 9:40 am
So it sounds like you're trying to orgasm and ejaculate?
If so, you should know that female ejaculation is very rare. Most women will never ejaculate. It's not even proven that all women are physically capable of ejaculating. So you certainly shouldn't feel bad or weird if you can't, just consider yourself lucky if you do.
As for having an orgasm, you do need to relax. That pee feeling is very common. You probably won't pee or ejaculate, but you can fool around in the shower, on an easy to clean floor, or on a towel just in case. Don't force it either. Thinking about it too much and trying too hard can make it even more difficult for most people.
And as always, make sure you're communicating. Let him know that it feels great even if you don't orgasm. Tell him not to be disappointed if you don't ejaculate. Let him know what feels the best and what doesn't really do it for you.
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Posted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:22 pm
If you feel the urge to "pee" it most likely is the urge to c**/ejaculate. If you actually can c** (as stated before, not all women can) then it'll most likely happen once you have relaxed and just let it happen. So just be relaxed and don't focus so much on trying to do it, and just enjoy the pleasure. If it feels good, then just go with it. ≈ᴷᴱᴺᴰᴿᴬ≈ A Summer With The Smith's (family roleplay)
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