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 Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:07 pm
I am only 12 years old, going to be 13 next month. Is it weird that I've been have sexual dreams alot? I have a huge crush on this guy, and I've been having really sexual dreams about us. When I'm in school, I seem to find myself daydreaming the entire time, and it's the same thing everytime. Is it appropriate/normal for someone my age and a girl to be having stuff like this. Also is it weird that I'm a sex freak? For a while, I had been watching porn, a couple of months, and I never got caught cuz I did it late at nite. I get horny a lot, but I never masturbate or anything like that. And if its normal, should I do anything about the feeling of being horny when I watch porn, or have those sexual dreams? P.S. I won't take any offense to what you have to say, and I appreciate the commentary.
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Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 7:39 pm
It's very normal to have sexual daydreams and fantasies, especially during puberty. It's also normal to masturbate, so don't be afraid of it. Masturbation can reduce stress and teach you more about your body.
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Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 9:15 pm
Will masturbation hurt me...and if I were to try it, is there anything i should be cautious of
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Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 1:46 am
If it hurts you, you're doing it wrong. wink
You can use anything from your fingers, to toys and inanimate objects. However, if you're going to use something other than your fingers, make sure you're using something that won't scratch or hurt you, and it's something that can be cleaned easily. So for example, electric toothbrush = bad idea, brush handle = good idea (more or less).
There's lots of ideas in this subforum, so feel free to take a look around. 3nodding Maybe you'll find some inspiration on what to try.
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Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:00 am
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 3:14 pm
I went through the same thing when I was your age. But finally I got over it. and masturbating doesn't hurt. It does really relieve stress. Trust me I've tried it. biggrin
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:09 pm
Nikolita If it hurts you, you're doing it wrong. wink You can use anything from your fingers, to toys and inanimate objects. However, if you're going to use something other than your fingers, make sure you're using something that won't scratch or hurt you, and it's something that can be cleaned easily. So for example, electric toothbrush = bad idea, brush handle = good idea (more or less). There's lots of ideas in this subforum, so feel free to take a look around. 3nodding Maybe you'll find some inspiration on what to try.
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Posted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:12 pm
Dreams and masturbation are normal.
But having sex is a big downfall.. especially at your age.
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 2:08 pm
yeah i'm your age and i'm having the same situation... what i found works really well other than my fingers are (if u have one) the handle to a plunger, b/c since its usually pretty long, u can go as deep or as little as you want.
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:41 pm
radioactive_pies yeah i'm your age and i'm having the same situation... what i found works really well other than my fingers are (if u have one) the handle to a plunger, b/c since its usually pretty long, u can go as deep or as little as you want. I personally would not use a plunger handle. After all, it is difficult to sterilize, other people touch it, and it's covered in bathroom germs. All that stuff can mean serious infections down there. But if you're going to use it, at least put a condom over the handle to protect yourself and the people who are going to touch it after you're done.
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:51 pm
LorienLlewellyn radioactive_pies yeah i'm your age and i'm having the same situation... what i found works really well other than my fingers are (if u have one) the handle to a plunger, b/c since its usually pretty long, u can go as deep or as little as you want. I personally would not use a plunger handle. After all, it is difficult to sterilize, other people touch it, and it's covered in bathroom germs. All that stuff can mean serious infections down there. But if you're going to use it, at least put a condom over the handle to protect yourself and the people who are going to touch it after you're done. Another note. You'd have to be careful how DEEP it goes. I don't remember where I heard it, but there is a story that a woman was on her dryer thrusting the end of a broom in herself and she fell off and the broom thrusted completely inside her, killing her instantly. It still makes me cringe just thinking about it. gonk
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Posted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:44 pm
I was the same way at your age. What i recommend to try is to explore yourself. When i first started masturbating i started with purely clitoral stimulation and i progressed from there. If you start with self penetration, i suggest you start with your fingers until you figure out what angles work best for you, that way you're less likely to hurt yourself if you want to use other objects.
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