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 Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 5:17 pm
Ok..this is the deal. I'm bi, woo for me. Basically everyone in the school knows this. But I'm also not ready to be with a girl, its odd. And i don't know if im really bi or it was a phase or not. I also really really like this chick. Which confuses me more. Shes basically the only one i can see myself dating of the same sex. Its complicated and my brain is frying over this. She has a g/f too. crying I want to tell her how i feel...cause we're both seniors and i'll probably never see her once we leave high school, but im ******** TERRIFIED!!! HELP!?
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 5:39 pm
Realy, the only thing you can do it to tell her about your feelings. That, and on one of the threads here there is a link to a test that I think is pretty accurate. You might take that test anf then think on the results. [edit] Here's the link Confused??? Take the test!!![/edit]
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 5:50 pm
Suoh Realy, the only thing you can do it to tell her about your feelings. That, and on one of the threads here there is a link to a test that I think is pretty accurate. You might take that test anf then think on the results. [edit] Here's the link Confused??? Take the test!!![/edit] Just took it, but it only told me that im bisexual with heterosexual tendancies. Didn't help very much.
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 8:55 pm
well just wait til your ready dear. when you are ready youll do well.
shes taken already so try to find other girls that you might like or wait awhile.
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 5:49 am
TehGrim is correct.
Don't get stuck on labels and categorizing yourself. It makes it seem like you're just a statistic, which is not the case of course.
For the meantime just let things happen as they will. If this young lady it already taken, then that seems to be a lost cause. Just wait and see what happens. Sometimes, it is only just a phase. Other times it turns out that your tastes do go both ways. However it turns out, just learn to be comfortable with it.
Good luck. xd
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 11:51 am
WiccanJoe TehGrim is correct. Don't get stuck on labels and categorizing yourself. It makes it seem like you're just a statistic, which is not the case of course. For the meantime just let things happen as they will. If this young lady it already taken, then that seems to be a lost cause. Just wait and see what happens. Sometimes, it is only just a phase. Other times it turns out that your tastes do go both ways. However it turns out, just learn to be comfortable with it. Good luck. xd Uno problem...its not a phase..i've had a crush on her since before i came out...which would be ninth grade, freshman, and im a senior this year...
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 12:10 pm
FlyingRodent19 Uno problem...its not a phase..i've had a crush on her since before i came out...which would be ninth grade, freshman, and im a senior this year... Well, in this case then, I still recommend that you don't sweat the details. Just let things take their natural paths and see what comes of it. I understand crushes 100% and I know that sometimes its not so easy to just let go. But there doesn't seem much that you can do short of telling her what your feelings towards her are.
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 4:23 pm
That must really suck for you. I know what it is like to have a really huge crush on someone, but you cant really get the gutts to say anything to them. If I were you, I would just suck it up and go streight up to the person, for me I would do it in privet, but that is just me, and tell them how you feel. Because, if you wait to long to say anything, you might never be with them or ever see them again. You have to trust me on this one, if you dont do anything about it, there would be no point on living here. Like my signature says, "Love is life, and if you miss Love, you miss Life".
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