ok heres the thing, my sister is 17, and she has a boyfriend who is 17 too. they had been going out sents the 9th grade!

but she told me, as of late, things have gotten kinda....dull. she says she dosn't love him any less then b4, but shes just kinda bored with there Relationship.

OK NOW HERES THE THING! she met a boy whos 14 but very mature for his age.

she likes him! shes been spending some time with him, and somethings happened....
and now she tells me she gave him a "BJ"

now my mom has always told us, that if your not married to a guy, its not cheating. that you don't really have any commitment to them. your just keeping you options open.

but im not to sure. is what she did really cheating???? was it ok 4 her to do????

PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!