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HayRider

PostPosted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 3:57 pm


Alright here goes...
Can anyone relate?

My name is Danny and every time somebody finds out about my bisexuality, thier jaw drops... Why?

1.Hockey Player
2.Football Player
3.Make fun of the whole "Lisp" thing
4.Not very Feminine
5.Jr. Class President

So this kind of makes it hard to fine a partner and/or to simply experiment at my age. So what do I do? Can anyone help me "Hook Up"

I'd appriciate advice, Thanks
PostPosted: Sun Oct 30, 2005 5:00 pm


crying i know what you mean its hard to find someone to experiment with cause im bi-curious

Huay


HayRider

PostPosted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 2:26 pm


Anyone else?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 8:17 pm


just be yourself. if they cant accept you for who you are, whether you are a football play, hockey player or anything else, then its not worth it. just keep trying. try making friends that feel similar to you and take it from there.maybe ask your girl pals. they may know some bi or gay guys.

hope u got 10bux


Jet Black New Year

PostPosted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 11:20 pm


HayRider
Alright here goes...
Can anyone relate?

My name is Danny and every time somebody finds out about my bisexuality, thier jaw drops... Why?

1.Hockey Player
2.Football Player
3.Make fun of the whole "Lisp" thing
4.Not very Feminine
5.Jr. Class President

So this kind of makes it hard to fine a partner and/or to simply experiment at my age. So what do I do? Can anyone help me "Hook Up"

I'd appriciate advice, Thanks
I don't know ( I'm just gay ) and maybe you need just to find a good screw. To put it bluntly
PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 2:21 pm


Be yourself, and also socialze! Socialization is key in my opinion... the more people you meet the more likely you are to find somone you like who likes you back! Last year I just stuck with my little group of friends, but this year as I've been talking to more people, taking weekend art classes, and overall surrounding myself with people I've found quite a few girls who like me! 3nodding

Don't worry about it too much though... you'll find love sooner or later! wink

DreamerSpirit


HayRider

PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 3:52 pm


I appriciate the input biggrin

Grim-Thank you! I think I'll ask some buds of mine...(Although I feel kinda dumb not thinking about that in the first place)XD
Hugs

Hey Jet,
Nobody takes me seriously enough to give me a "Good Screw." and although my school's pretty gay friendly, there are almost no other guys that will openly express thier feelings if they have any. If they are, they're superior, and overly-mature pricks. By the way I live in UTAH!!! The only way for the Morman community- is with the opposite sex- through the Mormon temple. The girls here think i'm a joker anytime I express feelings about myself, and maybe I just set my self up for that. But I do appriciate the advice as always. Maybe you could give me step by step lessons or somethin if you really want to spend the time

Love ya either way, I think...
P.S. I'm still a virgin

Dreamy,
Thank you so much! But I am already very open. The guy at lunch who invites everyone to my table is me!! But I appriciate it. You didn't know
Love Ya
PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:33 pm


Heh, I feel your confusion and pain. Really I do. My family is Mormon, and devout at that. Imagin what their reaction was when I told them I liked guys. Sorry bout your luck with living in Utah. BTW, what part do you live in? I've got family there, and am there myself every two years or so.

Suoh


HayRider

PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:43 pm


I live in ogden brotha, thanks! smile
PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:44 pm


HayRider
I live in ogden brotha, thanks! smile

Hehe, my grandma and grandpa live in Ogden, and my cousins live in Layton. BTW, your welcome, and you should join in on the games *points to the forum*

Suoh


HayRider

PostPosted: Wed Nov 02, 2005 5:21 pm


*bump it up*

Give me more! I'm really not greedy, just need some help!
PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 1:12 pm


I mean absolutely no offense by this...so please don't take any. It seems to me that you're in a hurry for experimentation or to find someone to fool around with. Maybe its just because I'm very reality based and I take things in stride, but I think you should just let the natural flow of things take you.

It might seem that I'm being redundant here, but I truly believe that if you just let things happen as they will and don't sweat the details, you'll get what you want out of life.

If waiting isn't your cup of tea, how about going to places where it is more likely that you'll run into a whole bunch of people that might be interested in you? Any local coffee houses or bookstores where the younger crowd hangs out?

Good luck.

WiccanJoe


HayRider

PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 3:29 pm


Thank you Joe, I think that's the best advice I've gotten...
Louvre you!
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