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Love.There is really no defanition. It has so many meanings.. misunderstood mostly. Love is encouraged. Love is fear. Love is nothing. Love is anything... but mostly.. drama. We all need love. there is love in us, no matter what you say. Love can make us do crazy things. Love can make us kill. Love is death. Love is life. But at the same time... none of this is true.
We use our 5 senses with love. We know that sweet aroma he/she brings in when they try smell good. You taste thier lips on yours when you have your first kiss. you see thier outside beauty and see thier soul. You hear their sweet whisper in your ear when they say they love you. And then finally... touch. the way he/she breathes on you. the way they softly strake your hair.. its so wonderful. You get goosebumps. You feel that chill through your face.
Then, there are different kinds of love. Family love, the kind of love you can depend on. the love you can trust. If your friends aren't there...your family is. They are always there. But then, there are torn homes. They misunderstood love. They couldn't find another way to actually... love, they didn't have any kind of love. And they are probably shy. They don't understand. That's when you have peer love. Peer love is friends.. they don't have to be forever... but you can depend on them and they will never let you fall. Not even a boy/girl can get through you two(or more). you know yo ucan tell them secrets and trust them. You can love them in a friend way... even if they are of the oppisite sex. Then... there is that funny thing called....Love. That person...you know them. You know that... you are in love... how? You don't dream that often about them....maybe a kiss in a dream... but you have nightmares. Nightmares so horrible.. you just want to die because of them. You are in love if you write love notes to them but throw them away because you know its stupid and you want to make it better.... but you never give it to them. You can also act like you hate them.... but your in love with them. There is such thing as love at first sight... but on one condition.. you look in thier eyes... and see that person. But anyways. yuo know you love that person if you can't concentrate and your world is backwards. You don't pay attention... you are thinking about that speacial someone. You want to think about that speacial someone. Your mind is on overdrive with them.. but your heart is pacing itself....
There can be silly little flicks. Boys that say they love you but really don't. All they want is your outside. They don't care about the inside. You know boys don't love you if... they don't want to spend time with you and they rather hang out with thier friends. They rather spend time with the boys and you don't know any of them. And you know they don't love you when they say"When are we going to have sex?" "Give me head" NO!@. Never say yes unless you truely know that they are in love wit hyou and your in love with them.
GIRLS WANT TO BE CALLED BEAUTIFUL!!!
GUYS WANT TO BE CALLED HANDSOME!!

This is all I have for you Hayley. This is my heart on paper. This is my knowledge about love. This is what I experienced. I love you Hayley and I know I can trust you. Listen to my advice... and trust me.

If the man you love doesn't want you... the only choice you have is too except it. There is nothing else you can do about it. You are in extreme love that you just want to "break down". There is no sense in working... the hurt is so great. I know how it feels. I've been in love. Just trust my advice... you don't want to waste your life free falling, having a bullet through your head, or sliting your throat. It's not worth it. Pick up your pieces. It will always be in your heart that you love him. Don't walk away either. Listen to me, Never let a boy make you do things. Even though I said " Love can make us do crazy things. Love can make us kill. " It doesn't.. You make it happen. It's your choice. Never blame love. Never blmae boys. Blame yourself. Love might drive us this way. But Hayley. This is your life and your decisions. I love you. I hope you get my advice.

-Tess aka heart_arcade


that was a PM from my friend to me ((modified a little for veiwers)) so who agrees?

....was i the only one who read that eek

a very good piece of info, nicely done. specially the part about a person trying to make a love note up but never actaully giving it to the special person

i agree. blaugh love is so many things. its more than just saying i love you and going out together. its being able to confide in one another, talk abour your problems, believe in each other and respect. love has no boundaries. it doesnt judge your race religion or sex. it brings you together. love makes things happen for a good reason sometimes a bad reason. love is an emotion, a feeling, a thing to see, a thing to hear and a thing to say. biggrin its more than just a word. when ppl get married it should be because you love them and would do everything and anything for them even if it would cost you your life. not because you are rich or some other stupid reason. people are killing the sanctity of marriage evil . we must save this once in for all. look at all the divorces out there. divorces not only affect the two ppl, it affects the children, friends and other parts of the family. heart love is something that can save us. i know that we arent always successful in love but when we are in love, it is the the best feeling you can ever have and experience. 3nodding

sorry i didn't respond... sweatdrop sure you can print it, my friend dosn't have it copywritten or anything! 4laugh

Amen to that sista! LoL. I couldnt agree any less then what you said. Love has no deffinition, that is because love has all sorts of meaning. Love is infinet, you can make as much as you want and it never goes away. heart

Wow... Good thing I prevented myself from falling in love.