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 Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 3:14 pm
Ok, Well Im bi-sexual, I "found out" about it a year or so ago, and I told my friends. They were cool with it and all, but this one girl. her name is Malisa, and she told the whole school that I was gay. So now no one is the same around me anymore!
Not to mention my I can't get a boyfriend OR a girlfriend, and that really makes me upset. I know its not really anything to get upset about, but this is my life I am talking about, and I have known half of the kids in my school since elementary, now they are acting all weird aroung me.
Can anyone give me some adivce on this please?
I am really confused.
I even talked to Malisa about it and she denied the whole thing, said it was her friend "Maddie" who did it, She doesn't have a friend named Maddie!
please can someone help me out?
She is saying that HE broke up with me because he thought I was ugly and a slut, but I don't think I am that ugly, and I KNOW I am not a slut.
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Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 3:48 pm
I hated school, though I was just an outcast.
As I remember, this is the only way they think they can make themselves look good, if someone else looks bad in comparison. Just means they will have a horrible life after school. Tends to be how Karma works out. At least you don't have too much longer to go, just about 3 years right?
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Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 4:59 pm
i would suggest talking to her again?
or perhaps takling to hte people that are acting weird around youu. they probably just fell odd that you didn't tell them or maybee they're not sure about things? they may have questions or something, and you should be ready to answer them. the best thing you can do is clarify things. but always remember that if they don't want to be your friends anymore, they aren't worth it. i've lost respect from some people and i almost lost a friend, so it can be hard. but some friends aren't worth having if they're going to hurt you in the end.
and she's crasy, cos you're pretty. and i'm sure you're not a slut.
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Posted: Thu Apr 02, 2009 9:17 pm
girl, i feel you on this one. something like that happened to me. see, this chick who was startin to chill with my friends (we're nice enough to welcome new kids) was told by one of my other friends that i was gay. after that, she wouldn't let me touch or get anywhere near her! it was ******** up! the difference is i didn't like her at all, so no big deal.
anyways, my suggestion is that you talk to all those people. especially the guys. they'll understand entirely. plus, there's a lot of closet cases, so you might get friends for this! in the long run, can't say anything for now, sadly. just talk to them a lil, though. trust me, it always works.
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Posted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 8:52 pm
of course your still human, it's just that some people choose to be ignorant when it comes to sexuality other than hetrosexuality, it's stinks, and I feel for you...
well I would suggest not hanging around this girl, hang out w/ the friends u know u can always trust, cause if a friend can't be open minded and accept u for who you are, than there no true friend.
hope all goes well for u, I give u my best wishes
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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 9:40 am
When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends. - a Japanese proverb
in other words thoes people who act differently to you are not real friends and are simply following the general consensus or in other words the popular people! look at the friends who have been supportive and they are who your real friends are do not settle for anything less!
as for this chick telling the world your busness i often find the ones who act like that are often hiding a latent sence of confused sexuality and feel they have to make others who are more open about themselves feel like crap.
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Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2009 10:49 pm
ok well if the people you grew up with act different around you then just look closer to those who dont and those who treat you like a friend even tho your are bi. being bi or gay or different for the matter doesnt ever make you less human. and your bf most be lame stupid and imature to use bullshit excuses suchs as those. already i can tell you must be a good person cause you will say things such as i know im not ugly most girls wont say that and that is a good charactoristic so just blow it off life isnt over just yet one day you will think you were just silly about thinking negative or letting something such as other treating you diff for be who you are
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Posted: Sat Jul 18, 2009 1:46 am
My advice to you is to just ignore them. I know it's hard. But you need to just push forward and go on. Get through high school. It's hard, yes, but I know what you mean about being treated differently. I've been physically hurt at my school because of dating a girl.
Just tell them to ******** off and live your life happily.
I want you to remember this: The best revenge is living well.
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