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 Posted: Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:23 pm
all my friends have had sex before, and didnt use BC or 'other things' like that, so my boyfriend and i had sex, and i somhow managed to get myself pregnant.
i have been pregnant for about 3.5 months now, and have no preferences to get an abortion, and my boyfriend and i and still in love and are planning on getting married in the future..
wish us luck!
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Posted: Sat Mar 28, 2009 7:55 am
Obviously what worked for your friends didn't work for you. xd Maybe now they will consider BC and those 'other things', though.
Congrats. <3 And I hope all goes well.
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Posted: Sat Mar 28, 2009 10:11 am
You two shouldn't have been having unprotected sex at all unless you were actually trying for a baby. Whether your friends got pregnant yet or not is irrelevant. If your friends and their partners are fertile, then it is only a matter of time before they get pregnant too. You guys should have known better. Hopefully you'll be more careful in the future.
I'm not a big fan of abortion. But I do recommend it to girls who are young, living with their parents, have no money, don't know anything about prenatal health, etc. Judging from your post, I'd guess you fall into that category. And if you do, having a baby would be nothing but selfish if you don't have anything to offer him or her and would have to rely on your parents to raise your baby for you.
But either way make sure you are eating well, seeing a doctor, and doing some research.
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Posted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 1:10 am
LorienLlewellyn You two shouldn't have been having unprotected sex at all unless you were actually trying for a baby. Whether your friends got pregnant yet or not is irrelevant. If your friends and their partners are fertile, then it is only a matter of time before they get pregnant too. You guys should have known better. Hopefully you'll be more careful in the future. I'm not a big fan of abortion. But I do recommend it to girls who are young, living with their parents, have no money, don't know anything about prenatal health, etc. Judging from your post, I'd guess you fall into that category. And if you do, having a baby would be nothing but selfish if you don't have anything to offer him or her and would have to rely on your parents to raise your baby for you. But either way make sure you are eating well, seeing a doctor, and doing some research. Seconded. Make sure you take care of yourself, do your research, and get yourself prepared. Having a baby young is far from easy, and it may change your relationship with your boyfriend too. Get prenatal health, save up as much money as you can, figure out living arrangements, who is going to help you raise the baby (if anyone), and so on.
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