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 Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 11:35 am
I can't take it anymore. He claims he wants to be my friend when I'm ready to part ways and then he ignores me. What the hell is the point? I guess I need to stop talking to him about it and just do it. Just stop talking to him period. I doubt he'd miss me, he ignores me half the time as it is like I'm an annoyance, yet if I ask if I am being annoying he laughs and says no. Why does he do this to me? Does he keep me around cause I am someone he can get comfort from or what? He's no friend. It's like a one way friendship and I'm sick of it. I need to keep busy so I don't think about him and just move on. He wants to be my friend let him work for it for once. And what is up with his myspace friends? They're all like girls that are 6 years younger than he is and half of them are fake accounts you can tell by the pictures and the friends. Ugh I need to let him be an idiot and make his damn mistakes and then laugh at him and say I told you so later. If he's a jerk to me then why can't I be a jerk to him. Grr. Reading my messages and then not responding. Not picking up his phone cause he sees it's me. That's cruel. I need to just focus on school and let him do what he wants. He doesn't want to talk to me for a week then fine I won't bother him. Well I feel a little better. lol Input is always accepted by the way.
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Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 10:32 am
Wow... ummm... are we talking about your neighbor? Or some other guy...?
Either way... Sometimes people get busy and they don't have time to respond right away. Messaging a friend more than once a day just to say whats up or hi can get kinda old and people can feel less likely to keep you up to date on their every move. If it is important and you need an answer right away a message with a note saying "Important Please respond as soon as you can" should get his attention.
However if he really is just ignoring you, I would say don't bother contacting him at all. If he wants to still be friends with you, let him contact you the next time. A friendship is a two way street.
Also, it has been my recent experience that when you let someone or something come before your education (or in other cases religion or anything else that is important to you) it never ends well for you. Don't let someone or something squash your dreams. Stay focused on your prize and don't let worries get you down. There are always things that can and will go wrong, but that is just part of life, it is keeping your chin held high and striving for that achievement that makes you a better person.
Never give up, never surrender!!! xd
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Bloody-Melons Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat May 23, 2009 9:44 pm
Wow! Your situation is exactly like mine except my friend is a girl. We've been "besties" for almost three years and recently she's been ignoring me and hangin' with the "inn-crowd" at school. But when she needs to b*tch and complain about someone, she comes to me. If she has a problem, she comes to me. But when I need comfort or a crying shoulder, she's unavailable. For the past week we have simply been ignoring each other. Or should I say, I began to treat her the same way she has been treating me. I'm not so sure that I am doing the right thing, but I know that I have tried to make this friendship work in the past, but I can't do it alone.
Here's a little background:
We used to have sleepovers every weekend. We would hang out after school, do stupid things, laugh for no reason, etc etc... Well, last year she came to my house after she had been drinking... After I had specifically told her she couldn't come over if she had been drinking. She flat out lied to my face and told me she didn't. I could smell it on her. Even after I called her on it, she lied. Lucky for me, she didn't get me in trouble.
Anyways, things have been like that for a while. Little lies here and there. And now she's been hanging out with the druggies and going to raves.
I have decided long ago not to even put myself in those kinds of situations and she's known that. I have not given up on her, but I am done trying to fix the gap she has created. If she wants this "friendship" to last, she better work her a** off to make it up to me.
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