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 Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2009 2:44 am
Wow I within this week I have found the love of my life someone that has topped anyone I have ever laid eyes on and what lies on the inside is just as equal, she is truely the most amazing women of my life and I truly want to marry her. Now here is the problem fellow S.E. members. The Parents, they are a bunch of rich stuck up snobs. I hate being disrespectful but I hate the fact that they are forcing her to marry some rich boy that she doesn't even love since they feel money is all that matters in a relationship. I have set some excessively high goals for myself, ones I'd never dream of setting I have no colledge eucation and yet I need to find some sort of job that will pay enough money to atleast pass. Honestly with the deepest part of my heart I would do ANYTHING to be with her even military. I have loved no one as much as I love her and to lose her is to lose everything that matters in life. My emotions are running wild I felt as though I have forgotten the meaning to love shed tear cry, feel happiness. Yet just thinking of her fills with such joy, and to think of her leaving my side... enen now as a 20 year old man. It can make someone like me breakdown in tears.
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Posted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 1:12 pm
Dude well I think if she loves you back as much how can her parents make her do it. I mean they might right her off and cutt off her money but if she loves you and you can do something to support the both of you and she don't care about the money then all is well.
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Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 8:30 pm
I don't want her to have to go that far, but she did tell me to go step by step and not to get overly stressed. oh and um... I got a nice gift last night ahem... twisted
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:25 pm
I don't believe that human beings can 'fall in love' that badly after a week. It's ludicrous.My advice: bang her a couple of times, get it out of your system, and move on.
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 3:11 pm
Maiden of Lost Memories I don't believe that human beings can 'fall in love' that badly after a week. It's ludicrous.My advice: bang her a couple of times, get it out of your system, and move on. There seems to be more than sex and good looks with this one. She accepts me for who I am, I'm not rushing the whole marriage thing because I want things to simmer around a bit and not end up feeling like I rushed her. She has til she's 21. I can wait a bit. First priority is to get a job and then work from there
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 5:40 pm
Arc Inochi Maiden of Lost Memories I don't believe that human beings can 'fall in love' that badly after a week. It's ludicrous.My advice: bang her a couple of times, get it out of your system, and move on. There seems to be more than sex and good looks with this one. She accepts me for who I am, I'm not rushing the whole marriage thing because I want things to simmer around a bit and not end up feeling like I rushed her. She has til she's 21. I can wait a bit. First priority is to get a job and then work from there Good for you, Arc! biggrin Go on your own instincts with this one, and I'm sure you'll find a solution 4laugh My best to the both of you!! heart heart
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 7:15 pm
NayaShardez Arc Inochi Maiden of Lost Memories I don't believe that human beings can 'fall in love' that badly after a week. It's ludicrous.My advice: bang her a couple of times, get it out of your system, and move on. There seems to be more than sex and good looks with this one. She accepts me for who I am, I'm not rushing the whole marriage thing because I want things to simmer around a bit and not end up feeling like I rushed her. She has til she's 21. I can wait a bit. First priority is to get a job and then work from there Good for you, Arc! biggrin Go on your own instincts with this one, and I'm sure you'll find a solution 4laugh My best to the both of you!! heart heart Thank you, I will do all I can for her. I merely want her happiness
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 6:32 am
Arc Inochi Maiden of Lost Memories I don't believe that human beings can 'fall in love' that badly after a week. It's ludicrous.My advice: bang her a couple of times, get it out of your system, and move on. There seems to be more than sex and good looks with this one. She accepts me for who I am, I'm not rushing the whole marriage thing because I want things to simmer around a bit and not end up feeling like I rushed her. She has til she's 21. I can wait a bit. First priority is to get a job and then work from there Well, I'm not buyin' it, but best of luck I hope it works out. I really hope this scenario doesn't creep up on you later to take a chunk out of your a**.
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:52 am
Now before anyone tries giving me anymore negative remarks I'm going to let you know. I don't give a damn, I still love her even though I can't be with her. Now onto whats going on. I went on what is said to be the last date with her. I was enjoying my time with her and was feeling as strong as ever. Nothing could be better, but I was wrong... I felt something was wrong but she wouldn't tell me. I was concerned but acted like nothing was wrong, but I knew something was up. I watched V for Vendetta with her and was more distracted with her. As I took her home I was hit with the slap of reality. It is after all an arranged marriage that her parents set her up with, and it is being rushed now, and soon I will indeed lose her. She says I will always be hers but I know, in all reality that as time goes by I will see her less and less until that one day I will never lay eyes on her. I want to thank all of you even maiden for their comments and know that I love all of you like brothers and sisters. I am going to continue to talk to her and search for a job. Even though I just want to walk down that depressing path of life, but she gave me the strength to fight once more, and once again I feel stronger than ever.
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Posted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 11:07 pm
Well, it seems that it is drawing closer to closing on my relationship. I don't know how to feel right now, I guess I just have a feeling of emptiness right now. I don't want to let her go but in the end I will have to. My memories of her, although short, are something I can never forget, she opened up to me and accepted my flaws as if they never existed in the first place. I am truly happy to meet someone as perfect as her. She truly is someone that deserves better. I am not worthy of such a good soul. Perhaps I am worhty of no one, a fate I can accept. I am used to being alone and living in the darkness, although I hate it, it still welcomes me. I do know, just like any other short relationship I have been in, it will heal. Although this one will be longer since I did indeed love this person. My first true love, and I can't even be with her. What did I ever do to deserve this... oh well perhaps the curse my dad has carries on in my blood. Perhaps I am to be a lone wolf, and never have a family of my own... My largest dream may never come true.
I love her so much yet she is just one of those stars in the sky I just will never be able to reach, no matter how hard I try. If only I could fly, she'd never pass me by
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 8:09 pm
This may come too late but I wanted to say it anyways.
Dosn't she get a say in this? I mean is she over 18 or what? If that's the case then she should be able to say who she wants to be with, even if it dosn't lead to an immediate marrige, and she would need your support to get her through that.
As for your description of your feelings for her I think you need to tell her that, and let her parents know just what you think about that arranged marrige.
Note I'm not saying that the outcome will be particularly -good- but this is about HER choice not theirs, arranged marrige=t3h $ux0r
Go get 'em Romeo!
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:25 pm
It might be a it late for me to say this, too - but that is what I would do. I'm that much of a rebel, and I absolutely hate being told what to do and those kind of things. But arranged marriage - it's a difficult one. As easy as one might think in voicing opinions against arranged marriage - it's not. Especially if one is the victim of such a nasty fate. In the end, 90% of the parents win and they have their way. But I'll tell you, strive to be one of the 10% that wins, Arc. Show 'em your love.
*FYI, the numbers are just my predictions*
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 3:45 am
She has never has had the say so in anything. Her parent has ran her life since birth, and to her it's fine. After they gave her life, and due to that she feels as though she must honor her parents. I accept that, all I know is when ever I bring the subject up it hurts her. If the was anyway to impress her parents, I'd have done it along time ago. I can't believe they would basically sell her to some rich guy, like she is a slave. If they lived in America I'd give them a piece of my mind, and show who sophisticate my English can become evil
(thanks, both of you, although it is too late. Usually it me offering a shoulder to lean on, but instead it is me in need of one. We all are like family, when I finally make up by being just as supportive)
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 11:09 pm
Aww. >_< Where does she live? I know that in some regions of China and Indonesia (this is where I live) they still have arranged marriages. Heck, just last week I read an article written by a 14-year old boy of a certain religion saying how "GREAT" arranged marriage is. rolleyes I can't see from his point of view.
Remember Arc, even though you might need a couple of days, weeks, or months to recover... you still have a life. A future. Look forward to it.
I'm not one to say, since it took me almost 2 years before I could let a certain someone go. mrgreen But I walk a new path now. I'll be here to share the pain if you need to.
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:14 am
She lives in a small part of the UK close by to scottland If I recall. It's rather a small area, her parent... the father being from spain and mother from germany went through an arranged marriage, and their parents and so on. So in a way she has a lot on her shoulders. I don't like the idea of me adding to that sum so I'll just do what I can to keep her in good spirit. I have recovered quite a lot...actually I am in high spirits. (I think someone spiked my slurpie XD again)
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