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So true. I mean, of course, I know of many people that can be pretty stable with their feelings (even if I can't comprehend them xd ) and simply fall in love once for a lifetime. But personally I don't know if there is a possibility of that kind. I used to fall in love (I don't believe in love =/= crush, to me it's very similar, maybe the only difference is how long it lasts?) often, and it always ended but somehow it's still within me... Even now, when I'm trying to work out a relationship other "crushes" or "loves" are still making my head very messy. "Too much love will kill you", that's right. whee And I think it's also true that if you chase after love it runs away from you, and once you start to run away from love it will start running after you wink xd

I used to get so mad at my friends in middle and high school for saying they loved their boyfriends/girlfriends. I basically try not to think about it. Because it's not like you can work at falling in love. It's a coincidental thing, and once it happens, it's all just a matter of how you deal.