hunter7733
I"M SO SICK OF ITT!! All my messages on msn are "DUMP __________ FOR ME PLEASE!!!!!" Noone ever messages me just to chat. They all want me to dump someone or do something else for them. Alot of them are also "ASk ____ out for me!" I'm so sick of it! If someone wanted to go out with someone they would ask themselves right? And if someone really wanted to dump someone they would dump them themselves..Right? I'm so sick of being the person who dumps people or other people or the person who hooks 2 people up. They are all immature. The worst one is my friend. She constantly asks me. I'm her best friend though, and I hate saying no to her. If I do say no, people get mad at me and say "I"D DO IT FOR YOU!!!11!!" but the thing is...When I liek someone I ask them out myself. When I want to dump someone, I dump them myself. Why do people always come to me for these things?!?! How can I make them stop coming to me?!?!?
First off, the difference between you and your friends is that you are not a coward, while they clearly are. You really need to associate with people who are more on par with your own personality. You'll find that you'll be a lot happier in general, I think.
Okay, as for getting people to stop asking you for things, there are two ways to go about this. The first way, being a way that will work quickly and effectively. And the second way, being Sipid's way, which will work even faster and be hilarious.
First. Just say no. Absolutuly refuse to help them. In fact, don't even respond to them or their E-mails. If you think an E-Mail will pertain to that kind of information, don't even open it. After a while people will just naturally stop coming to you, as they realize that you won't be of any help to them.
Second way. Open the E-Mail, and instead of doing what they want you to do, do the opposite
Ex.) Person A wants you to Break them up with person B. Now, instead of breaking them up, you should tell "B" that "A" is completely in love with them. This will lead to vast amounts of anger on the part of person "A" which will cause them to never come to you again, and probably spread the word that you're not helping anyone.
Ex. 2) If Person A wants you to ask out person B for them. You should attempt to hook "B" up with someone completely different. That way "A" will become dejected and not want to deal with you anymore.
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