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 Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 3:40 pm
Nice guys and teh dreaded "little sister" Crap gets on my nerves!
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 3:43 pm
SizeTwelveShoe Women don't date "nice guys" because everyone who thinks they are a nice guy is a total pushover who fit better with a leash than a condom. Your problem is that you are unimaginative. You actually think that you have to be a nice guy or an a*****e. Women aren't attracted to you because you have no balls. Women don't take you seriously, they treat you like women. Why? Because you can't stand up for yourself. If you really wanted to date a girl you would get off your pansy a** and make them want to date you. But you'd rather not take any risks, you'd rather not rock the boat, you'd rather stay at a safe interim between anonymity and intimacy. You'd rather complain that girls don't like you than improve yourself to the point that they do. Women wont date you because they don't respect you. They don't respect you because they know you are wusses. If you weren't a wuss you'd be with them by now. Or you would at least have told them to get their s**t together and sort out their own relationship problems, and hung up on them. In conclusion, men without balls suck. True If i guy dosen't act liek he want me Then i don't really go for it
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 7:41 pm
SizeTwelveShoe Women don't date "nice guys" because everyone who thinks they are a nice guy is a total pushover who fit better with a leash than a condom. Your problem is that you are unimaginative. You actually think that you have to be a nice guy or an a*****e. Women aren't attracted to you because you have no balls. Women don't take you seriously, they treat you like women. Why? Because you can't stand up for yourself. If you really wanted to date a girl you would get off your pansy a** and make them want to date you. But you'd rather not take any risks, you'd rather not rock the boat, you'd rather stay at a safe interim between anonymity and intimacy. You'd rather complain that girls don't like you than improve yourself to the point that they do. Women wont date you because they don't respect you. They don't respect you because they know you are wusses. If you weren't a wuss you'd be with them by now. Or you would at least have told them to get their s**t together and sort out their own relationship problems, and hung up on them. In conclusion, men without balls suck. This is completely true. Most "nice guys" are losers. I should know, I've gone out with a few, been friends with many. Girls and women who want someone to thrill them (this dosen't refer to someone who is an a*****e or rude), someone they respect as much as themselves, and someone who can best them at thier own games or at least tie. They want guys with thier own opinions, likes, and dislikes. There is a bold line between being sweet or nice, and being a wuss. The alpha male gets all the goods. Being the best makes you the most desirable, confidence and intelligent will get you the farthest. Ah, life and its trivial persuits.
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Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 4:52 pm
heh. I actually cried.
I yet have not met anyone to that description...but I am still so young in age.
The way it is written...it makes me feel so sorry for the people who are just naturally kind. And when I say I want a "nice guy" I'm not like all the other poeple in the world...beause I really do want a nice guy. *sigh* I am so limited to men in the world. I wish we would move so I can go to a new school and meet new people.
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 8:33 am
I went out with a nice guy. He got his selfsteem up and left me after 6 months so yeah I like guys who are bold but will let you win most of teh time but still put up a fight once in a while!
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 8:35 am
SweetJenny I went out with a nice guy. He got his selfsteem up and left me after 6 months so yeah I like guys who are bold but will let you win most of teh time but still put up a fight once in a while! And then a couple weeks later said " I think we have a good chance of going out" Then on our date he said " i don't think I every loved you and I do want to go out with you" . When he broke up with me teh first time I just Cried and was said But the last time was was pissed I was Cussing at him for leading me on and everything
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:49 pm
I'd call myself a "nice guy", but I'm nothing like what you described. Your placing men in two categories, I don't think either one is really true about most men.
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:55 pm
I would agree that every man falls into one of the two categories, but I don't agree that everything being said aplies to everyone in that particular category. Guys are usually either "nice" guys or not, but doesn't make all those things true. I'd consider myself a "nice" guy because I'm generally respectful and nice, but I've also been in a steady relationship for almost a year, and I am still in high school. I also stand up for myself and am outgoing, yet I consider myself a nice guy. Do you guys see where I am going with this?
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:49 pm
hmmm...I suppose I'm a nice guy (I give flowers, backrubs, footrubs, write poems, know what scented baths are all about, and am caring and considerate of my GF at all times) but my GF's don't get to find that out until the relationship is underway. I've learned that these aspects of myself are not to be worn on my sleave or given away for free. Nice guys may not finish last but they shure don't get laid rolleyes , so when I'm meeting new ladies I'm 100% alpha male, still always a gentelman to be sure but not a push over. The last thing I want is to be sized up as a great friend.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 7:07 pm
Yeah, I pretty much was nodding my head the whole time.
This reminded me of a book I recently read: The Perks of Being a Wallflower. All through the book, this boy is growing more and more in love with his friend Sam, and all the while he is being your average "nice guy". In the end, Sam says this:Quote: It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things.
Girls are going to like the nice guys as friends, because that's all they put themselves out there to be. Someone to listen to, a shoulder to cry on, a friend. If the nice guys of the world want to get the girl, they're going to have to give more than their shoulder, it seems.
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