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 Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 10:21 pm
~~~~~~~~~~~~The story~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
About 3 1/2 years ago when i was in 2nd grade i developed a crush for this guy (I'll say his real name which is Daniel), he was in my class that year and i had several other crushes so i didnt tell him, my friends were bugging the hell out of me to tell him but i wouldnt so a year later(Daniel is in a different class) mid school year me and my friends were playing house so the dad(in house) went to play wall ball and the mom told me to go get him. When i went to go get him he was right behind Daniel. I said "Treig, Veronica needs you"
Daniel had to butt in and say "Treig do you have a crush on Carol?" I was shocked that he said that and Treig (I'm using real names and yes Carol is my name) knew the secreat so he just said no. but i STILL had a crush on Daniel.(i kept on day dreaming that part over and over and over but in the day dream i would slap him and he would french me ;D) but in about march my friends, Alyssa and Dani(both girls) talked me into writing a note to him telling him I've had a crush on him since the beginning of 2nd grade, he told the counseler he felt awkward about it and I had to write another damn letter. When he began to ride my bus he dropped some fluffy dice and asked me to get the for him. So i did but i threw it over the seat for him. And he said "Carol, you don't want to hurt me would you? cause if you did i would have to show people that letter." I was like WTF he still had the letter it was about mid may and he STILL had the letter.A couple months ago i asked my friend (many of you have heard me say i moved across the country) on the phone if she could tell Daniel i didnt like him anymore(not true) and she told me that a couple months into 4th grade he moved i was shocked and started day dreaming that he would move to my area and go to my school well about mid November I got very paranoid because a new guy who looked almost EXACTLY like Daniel (i thought he was Daniel) was walking in line for lunch and i started the day dreaming again (sorry about ho long the story is I'm gonna end it)
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The questions
Do you think I'll ever forget about him?
Do you think he also had a crush on me from keeping the letter?
Does it sound like fate or just a matter of timing that he moved the year or so after i did?
Has something similer to this situation happen to you?
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I forgot to add this but I STILL remeber his face like he's right in front of me, him on the feild playing some kind of sport and me swining on the swing watching him with out him knowing.
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Please help
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Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 8:59 am
well, i DO believe u can get ur mind out of that thoughts
it has happen 2 me allll the time
so dont worry
crushes come n go =)
bein in somewhere different will help u alot forgettin him =)
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Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:40 pm
but.....
i kinda still have a huge crush on him
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Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 7:44 pm
yeah that happens
and it'll fade in time
but i've been through that
you won't forget him but you will stop crushing on him
and maybe he did
a matter of timing
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 6:02 pm
Nuuuuu..........
I keep having dreams about him again stare
I think i still have a crush on him
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 9:57 pm
I'm a bit confused between the past and the present. This bus thing happened when again?
Moving on. If he was your first love no you won't forget about him but you will definitely get over him. and when you fall in love again. He will most likely be out of your memory.
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Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 8:07 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 3:18 pm
meleny7 I'm a bit confused between the past and the present. This bus thing happened when again? Moving on. If he was your first love no you won't forget about him but you will definitely get over him. and when you fall in love again. He will most likely be out of your memory. bus thing happened about mid may
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Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:16 pm
k, the same thing happened 2 me i 5th grade. i had a crush on this guy named cruz (i know, crappy name).about mid year, i told him i had a crush on him. he told me he had a crush me. i glowing for like, a month. at the end of the year, cruz went 2 middle school, and i stayed in the same k-8. i never got over day dreaming that he would show up at the end of the school day, and grab me, and start kissing me. i saw him a couple times, but never talked 2 him. i have the same kinda situation as u. eventually, my feelings just faded. i dont really have a crush on him anymore. i guess i just moved on. himura kiki Yuuki ~~~~~~~~~~~~The story~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~` About 3 1/2 years ago when i was in 2nd grade i developed a crush for this guy (I'll say his real name which is Daniel), he was in my class that year and i had several other crushes so i didnt tell him, my friends were bugging the hell out of me to tell him but i wouldnt so a year later(Daniel is in a different class) mid school year me and my friends were playing house so the dad(in house) went to play wall ball and the mom told me to go get him. When i went to go get him he was right behind Daniel. I said "Treig, Veronica needs you" Daniel had to butt in and say "Treig do you have a crush on Carol?" I was shocked that he said that and Treig (I'm using real names and yes Carol is my name) knew the secreat so he just said no. but i STILL had a crush on Daniel.(i kept on day dreaming that part over and over and over but in the day dream i would slap him and he would french me ;D) but in about march my friends, Alyssa and Dani(both girls) talked me into writing a note to him telling him I've had a crush on him since the beginning of 2nd grade, he told the counseler he felt awkward about it and I had to write another damn letter. When he began to ride my bus he dropped some fluffy dice and asked me to get the for him. So i did but i threw it over the seat for him. And he said "Carol, you don't want to hurt me would you? cause if you did i would have to show people that letter." I was like WTF he still had the letter it was about mid may and he STILL had the letter.A couple months ago i asked my friend (many of you have heard me say i moved across the country) on the phone if she could tell Daniel i didnt like him anymore(not true) and she told me that a couple months into 4th grade he moved i was shocked and started day dreaming that he would move to my area and go to my school well about mid November I got very paranoid because a new guy who looked almost EXACTLY like Daniel (i thought he was Daniel) was walking in line for lunch and i started the day dreaming again (sorry about ho long the story is I'm gonna end it) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The questions Do you think I'll ever forget about him? Do you think he also had a crush on me from keeping the letter? Does it sound like fate or just a matter of timing that he moved the year or so after i did? Has something similer to this situation happen to you? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I forgot to add this but I STILL remeber his face like he's right in front of me, him on the feild playing some kind of sport and me swining on the swing watching him with out him knowing. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Please help
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Posted: Thu Jan 01, 2009 10:50 am
i went through this ame thing a hundred times (like 7-9 times) back in elementary school. by the end of 6th grade, i'd gotten so sick of it that from then on i've chosen to never have such a crush again. and it worked. im sixteen and i havent had a crush since i was eleven and im stilll goin
now dont get me wrong. im not saying its bad to like guys. i still find guys i think are attractive and would like to know better all the time. but the all the fantasizing and daydreaming and the "does he like me back?" and "should i tell him?" the need to analyze his every behavior etc etc etc. it's all in your head and goes away simply by choosing it to be so
the reason it's called a crush is because it you get emotionally crushed and who wants that when they can simply choose to be happy
i guess im just ranting my own story but all im trying to say is
you can decide to forget about him he'll still be in your memory but you'll be over him and uncrushed
heart heart heart heart
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Posted: Thu Jan 01, 2009 10:38 pm
Oh and this wasn't my first crush i had like 7 before this
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Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:18 am
I'm going through the same thing right now. I just keep listening to sad songs and hope for the best. I really want to let him go, and people always say I'll get over it, but it's just not happening...
But there's gonna be heartaches, there's gonna be mistakes, in life. There's gonna be happy days, and things will go your way, in life. Things will get better overtime.
All you can do right now is hope that I'm right.
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:34 am
Just move on. Ok, it'll be hard but all you need is closure. Find out who he really likes and move on.
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 9:07 am
has any thing changed since Jan 01
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