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the_forgotten_thought

PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 10:22 pm


ok, so it's a really long story, but i have adhd. and the problem with that is i think uncontrolably fast. see, i've learned to write fast and talk fast and work fast and do everything i can quickly, because otherwise i lose track of what i'm doing. here's the problem though. i never got help for it. like, at school, when i'd get too far ahead of the class because i picked it up fast and started doing other stuff, my teachers wouldn't mind. they'd actually give me more difficult work and let me get way ahead so i'd stay quiet and keep learning at the same time.

but now i'm in high school, and it's nothing like that. i'm in the "Gate English" class which is supposed to be for the smart kids, but everything goes so slow. i mean, it's way too easy for me. so since my teacher won't give me other work but also won't let me entertain myself quietly (she never lets me draw, even if my work is done or if we've finished a test) all i can do is argue with her about how we could make the class better. see, when i don't have something to distract me, i get argumentative, because since i'm not allowed to talk and can't do anything in that class but sit and wait quietly (which is impossible for me) i can't help but try to make suggestions for making it better.

the only problem is, since that distracts everybody, half the class can't stand me. they all think i'm stupid and annoying. i'm the only a, but right, i'm stupid. anyways, i need suggestions. is there a solution to this problem or do i just deal with people hating me? i mean, i can, but i'd really rather not. i'm not used to people shouting at me to shut up but then not being allowed to say stuff back.

that's another thing. since i'm annoying, the teacher allows people to say shut up or your stupid, but if i say something back, i get in trouble. i need help. is there any?
PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:55 am


a psyciatrist? medication? probably, professional help is the only thing that will help you.

Gerbil_of_the_Vashness

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Anabethe

PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:58 pm


Agreed. You have to get help for that. and you will probably get medication to slow your mind down a bit and stop it from firing thoughts. talk to a school councelor. you would be surprised how helpful they can be.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 12:06 pm


so you mean there's nothing i can do by myself? cuz like, i dunno. my parents think i have problems, but i dunno if they ever think that problems are serious so i dunno if i can really do anything and i wanted to do something that didn't result in getting meds later. oh well, it that's my only option, i'll go with it. it's gotta be dealt with.

can you really talk to a school councellor about that stuff? i thought they only wanted to get you to college and the help stopped there?

the_forgotten_thought


Gerbil_of_the_Vashness

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 1:07 pm


the_forgotten_thought
so you mean there's nothing i can do by myself? cuz like, i dunno. my parents think i have problems, but i dunno if they ever think that problems are serious so i dunno if i can really do anything and i wanted to do something that didn't result in getting meds later. oh well, it that's my only option, i'll go with it. it's gotta be dealt with.

can you really talk to a school councellor about that stuff? i thought they only wanted to get you to college and the help stopped there?
no, they're for personal counceling too. it's a good idea to go at least once.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 3:39 pm


If you are Adhd there's not much you could do about it. because you can't help it. and yes counselors help you with personal problems as well and im sure they will come up with a better solution for you.

Anabethe

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OMG !! its a problem forum!! o.O

 
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