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Wrendraith

PostPosted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 10:29 pm


SO KK GUYS.

So like I know some of you know I got that doughnut frying job a few weeks back. XDDD;;
Well here it is... my doughnut making skills fail so they had to let me go, even though my boss didn't want to.
SO. Two day after I'm let go, I get a call from the same store and they want to hire me for a different position OUT of the bakery. Thank god.

Soooo now I work nights in the deli. o3o; It's actually really fun, although I have to wear a vest that makes me look like a thanksgiving monster.

Anyways... o_o;;;

So my second day there this 38-ish year old big black guy walks passed and I smile at him because I think he's gonna come order something, but he just smiles back and is like "GOOD JOB" then stared at me as he walked away.

K... so..

Next day I'm in the break room and the same black dude comes up there - apparently he works in seafood. Anyways, somehow he started talking to me - and I just thought it was casual conversation, so I was idly chatting back while I ate my lunch....

So like we were talking about college nstuff and he was all "SO WHAT ARE YOU MAJORING IN?" So I told him I'm not quite sure yet, kinda messing with my options.
And he like stared at me and was all "You should be a model."
o.o; Um... five minutes after I met him.

So like every time he sees me he like stares at me and smiles.

And tonight I was taking the trash to the trash compactor and as I'm leaving I pass seafood and he's all "What are you doing tonight?"

I was like. ".. Um... working?.."
And he was all "... oh... -looks disappointed.- You have to go home with mom and dad, right? ...."
So I was like. ".... Yeah, I do." And zoomed away. D:
WTF? I JUST MET YOU.
I don't remember telling him I go home with my parents. ._.;;

UM. DUDE.
YOU ARE LIKE A 40 YEAR OLD MAN THAT'S MARRIED.
I AM AN 18 YEAR OLD GIRL.

He's apparently a navy dude and he's new in the store I work in, too..
Idunno. I just kinda find this creepy.
I don't know if I'm overreacting. I'm kinda waiting, if he does anything weird I'll tell my manager.. o.o; But I don't know if I should tell her now. Not like "OMFG HE'S A RAPIST" but like "Um.. hey. I dunno if I'm overreacting, but..."


Should I? o_o; I'm not sure if I should or not. Or if I should wait awhile and just see if he's like... really friendly or something.
MAYBE HE'S JUST TRYING TO RECRUIT ME. 8D
I don't work alone, thank god, but it's still kinda creepy. I think I'm just gonna wait, but I have no experience with stuff like this..

o_o Any advice guys? <3333333333333333333333





PostPosted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:23 pm


If you are getting uncomfortable
about this guy... (well it does seem
like you are uncomfortable) I say
report him to your manager.

All in all, he is sexually harassing you.
._.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:41 pm


Guccigirl247
If you are getting uncomfortable
about this guy... (well it does seem
like you are uncomfortable) I say
report him to your manager.

All in all, he is sexually harassing you.
._.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 12:23 am


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If you are getting uncomfortable
about this guy... (well it does seem
like you are uncomfortable) I say
report him to your manager.

All in all, he is sexually harassing you.
._.
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Wrendraith

PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 1:15 am


eek oh dear. Dx Yeah, he makes me really uncomfortable. o-o;

8D Thanks so much you guys!

I just wasn't sure.. never been in a workplace where this has happened before. @w@;

I'll tell my manager when I work next. heart
PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 6:52 am


Scare him off, tell him you're looking to settle down makea couple kids and live off of your husband, ask him how much he makes. Then whip out a calculator and start punching in numbers... and then sigh REALLY exasperatedly and then walk out of the room shaking your head and still punching in numbers into the calculator.

Then every time you see him tell him that the numbers still need to be worked out but your out look is good.

That or just flash him a boob.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:28 am


Eh, I'd say wait. Right now he's just been creepy but hasn't actually done anything wrong. If it continues or gets worse, do something.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:33 am


And....PLEASE. He isn't sexually harassing her. He hasn't done ONE sexually harassing thing. He hasn't commented on her sexually or anything like that, he's just been a bit creepy. People can BE creepy without it being a crime. If it gets to the point where you're actually scared something might happen, like he tries to contact you outside of work and won't leave you alone, or makes sexually harassing comments, then that's different. Right now he hasn't SEXUALLY HARASSED you at all. :/

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 1:04 pm


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And....PLEASE. He isn't sexually harassing her. He hasn't done ONE sexually harassing thing. He hasn't commented on her sexually or anything like that, he's just been a bit creepy. People can BE creepy without it being a crime. If it gets to the point where you're actually scared something might happen, like he tries to contact you outside of work and won't leave you alone, or makes sexually harassing comments, then that's different. Right now he hasn't SEXUALLY HARASSED you at all. :/


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you could always hint to him that he's being awkward. when he makes creepy comments just be all "uhhh.... no thanks."

if he keeps going make a crack about his age.

maybe if he's pissed off he'll leave you alone. xD
PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 5:32 pm


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Be a (stupid) teenager but not so much that the manager would fire you but enough to get him to stop bugging you.

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Wrendraith

PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 5:40 pm


Yeah, I don't really think he's sexually harassing me, honestly. o.o; He's just being.... creepy.

I'm not gonna tell my manager "I'M BEING SEXUALLY HARASSED D<" I'm just probably gonna tell her what happened, especially if he continues to bug me. o_o;;;

Don't honestly want to get the guy in trouble if he's just being .... umm... strange and friendly? Idk...

I've kinda got the "better safe than sorry" outlook right now. @w@;;;

BUT LIKE YEAH. 8D If he says something like that again. Like "So what you doing tonight?" I'm gonna ask him why he's asking me that... or something... or I'll tell him he's making me uncomfortable. o-o;;;

THANKS YOU GUYS. ;W; You really helped. <333 I wanted to be sure I wasn't just overreacting, or underreacting. I know stuff like this happens all the time and bad things happen to people because they didn't tell anyone what was happening. He makes my warning bells go off like woah.

And LMAO Tedie. XDDD I could totally try that.

AND A SLIGHTLY HORRIFIED LMFAO TO BUZZ.






PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 9:48 pm


Wrendraith
Yeah, I don't really think he's sexually harassing me, honestly. o.o; He's just being.... creepy.

I'm not gonna tell my manager "I'M BEING SEXUALLY HARASSED D<" I'm just probably gonna tell her what happened, especially if he continues to bug me. o_o;;;

Don't honestly want to get the guy in trouble if he's just being .... umm... strange and friendly? Idk...

I've kinda got the "better safe than sorry" outlook right now. @w@;;;

BUT LIKE YEAH. 8D If he says something like that again. Like "So what you doing tonight?" I'm gonna ask him why he's asking me that... or something... or I'll tell him he's making me uncomfortable. o-o;;;

THANKS YOU GUYS. ;W; You really helped. <333 I wanted to be sure I wasn't just overreacting, or underreacting. I know stuff like this happens all the time and bad things happen to people because they didn't tell anyone what was happening. He makes my warning bells go off like woah.

And LMAO Tedie. XDDD I could totally try that.

AND A SLIGHTLY HORRIFIED LMFAO TO BUZZ.






D: I hope you don't encounter any more problems with said person. <3 Ilu Wrennie.

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