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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 2:20 pm

Ok well I've been seeing my boyfriend for just over a month, we haven't had sex but we've done other things.

All we've done to eachother involves the hands, and he hasn't even gone underneath my underwear.

Lol but the last two days I've been feeling rather ill in the mornings mostly, and at lunch.
He jokingly said "You could be pregnant" to which I replied "That's impossible" as we haven't had sex.

so he said "it COULD be possible, if sperm got somewhere near there"

Now I know this is dumb, because as I said to him even if it did get close to there, sperm can't like...crawl up inside of you from your underwear or legs.

But yeah, tell me I'm right so that I can tell him to SHUSH

I am right yeah 0.o

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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 2:46 pm

He's right that you can get pregnant without having sex. Sperm can get inside you if it's deposited close enough to your v****a. So if he ejaculates on your underwear, butt, stomach, or thigh, it is possible for the semen to drip into your v****a.

If semen has been near your v****a, watch for your next period. Take a test if it is late.

However, if the semen was down near your knee or something and never made it anywhere near your v****a, you're right, it's not going to crawl its way up your leg.

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priestess of light

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Posted: Sat Oct 11, 2008 9:24 am

Yeah but even if it was just ON your v****a I wouldn't think that you could still get pregnant.

Since the reason sperm is shot out when ejeculating is so that it can be propelled inside you.

Surely even if it was just on the v****a it still needs to travel the distance inside so make you pregnant, as they can't crawl

The ejeculation is needed for it to be inside of you.

Posted: Sat Oct 11, 2008 10:23 am

That is incorrect. Semen is ejaculated into the v****a to give it a bit of a push, but that push doesn't get the sperm all the way to where it needs to be. Sperm can also swim, and they do swim to reach their goal. So it is possible for sperm to swim from your vaginal opening up to your egg. It's a longer tougher journey for them, but they can do it.

Since you're becoming more sexually active, I'd suggest doing some research on this stuff and maybe getting some birth control.

Here are some sites for more information:

""Dry" sex really isn't "dry sex" anymore once body fluids come into the equation. When we're talking about dry sex, we're talking about genital humping or grinding where the people involved ARE clothed and where fluids are not exchanged. If you were both nude, and he was rubbing or grining his p***s against your vulva and/or vaginal opening, that was no longer dry -- that's basically what lives between dry sex and intercourse -- and risks exist with that activity that do not exist with actually dry sex: risks of pregnancy, risks of sexually transmitted infections....If you do not wish to become pregnant, it's vital that if you're going to be having direct genital-to-genital contact that you only do so while using a reliable method of birth control."
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/dry_sex_that_isnt_dry_at_all

"Pregnancy can occur if a woman and a guy have faux sex or dry sex. (True)

This is when there is no penetration, but there is skin to skin contact of the genital area. Again, anytime the p***s and the vaginal area come into contact, there is the slight risk of pregnancy and a risk for STD transmission."
http://www.netwellness.org/healthtopics/pregnancy/pregmyths.cfm

"Can I Get Pregnant Without Penetration?
Yes, in theory if female genitals make contact with sperm pregnancy could occur.....

Can Sperm Make Me Pregnant By Getting on My Privates?
Yes, in theory it is possible for any contact between a female's genital area and sperm to result in pregnancy....

The following activities carry the highest risk of pregnancy:

* intercourse, with or without protection
* contact between the female genital area and sperm or pre-ejaculatory fluid
* a**l sex if any sperm makes contact with female genital area"
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/amipregnant/a/FAQteenpreg1.htm

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Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2008 2:59 pm

LorienLlewellyn

That is incorrect. Semen is ejaculated into the v****a to give it a bit of a push, but that push doesn't get the sperm all the way to where it needs to be. Sperm can also swim, and they do swim to reach their goal. So it is possible for sperm to swim from your vaginal opening up to your egg. It's a longer tougher journey for them, but they can do it.

Since you're becoming more sexually active, I'd suggest doing some research on this stuff and maybe getting some birth control.

Here are some sites for more information:

""Dry" sex really isn't "dry sex" anymore once body fluids come into the equation. When we're talking about dry sex, we're talking about genital humping or grinding where the people involved ARE clothed and where fluids are not exchanged. If you were both nude, and he was rubbing or grining his p***s against your vulva and/or vaginal opening, that was no longer dry -- that's basically what lives between dry sex and intercourse -- and risks exist with that activity that do not exist with actually dry sex: risks of pregnancy, risks of sexually transmitted infections....If you do not wish to become pregnant, it's vital that if you're going to be having direct genital-to-genital contact that you only do so while using a reliable method of birth control."
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/dry_sex_that_isnt_dry_at_all

"Pregnancy can occur if a woman and a guy have faux sex or dry sex. (True)

This is when there is no penetration, but there is skin to skin contact of the genital area. Again, anytime the p***s and the vaginal area come into contact, there is the slight risk of pregnancy and a risk for STD transmission."
http://www.netwellness.org/healthtopics/pregnancy/pregmyths.cfm

"Can I Get Pregnant Without Penetration?
Yes, in theory if female genitals make contact with sperm pregnancy could occur.....

Can Sperm Make Me Pregnant By Getting on My Privates?
Yes, in theory it is possible for any contact between a female's genital area and sperm to result in pregnancy....

The following activities carry the highest risk of pregnancy:

* intercourse, with or without protection
* contact between the female genital area and sperm or pre-ejaculatory fluid
* a**l sex if any sperm makes contact with female genital area"
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/amipregnant/a/FAQteenpreg1.htm

Ah I see, thankyou =]

Damnit I guess I have to tell him he was right biggrin

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 11:13 am

priestess of light

Yeah but even if it was just ON your v****a I wouldn't think that you could still get pregnant.

Since the reason sperm is shot out when ejeculating is so that it can be propelled inside you.

Surely even if it was just on the v****a it still needs to travel the distance inside so make you pregnant, as they can't crawl

The ejeculation is needed for it to be inside of you.

that of course is wrong cause you are wet the sperm can just swim right up into your uterus and fertilise your egg. sperm swim very fast

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