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 Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 6:00 pm
Hey, guys. So, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a little over two months now. We are very careful and love each other dearly. Our sex is wonderful, but I want to have a closer connection with him through means of climaxing at the same time as he does. We try a variety of positions, but are there any tips or tricks any of you know so that we can climax at the same time? He's on the heavier side, and I'm on the smaller side if that helps any. I've tried stimulating myself during intercourse, but I end up climaxing too quickly or getting tired. Perhaps some of you have some creative ideas?
Thanks, guys!
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:46 pm
It's extremely rare for two people to orgasm at the same time, our bodies are just so different and orgasms can be so unpredictable. I've been having sex for nine years, and I don't think I've ever had an orgasm at the exact same time as a partner.
It's ok if you want to keep trying to have an orgasm at the same time, but there's no magic way to make it happen, so don't get too disappointed if it doesn't. You're actually lucky you orgasm at all, a lot of women have trouble having an orgasm, especially during sex.
So I'd say just keep doing pretty much what you have been doing. Try different positions, try stimulating yourself, use toys, etc. If it happens, consider yourself lucky. If it doesn't, no big deal. You two can still be just as close and enjoy sex just as much.
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 8:04 pm
Hm. Sweet deal. Thank you very much!
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 8:26 am
LorienLlewellyn It's extremely rare for two people to orgasm at the same time, our bodies are just so different and orgasms can be so unpredictable. I've been having sex for nine years, and I don't think I've ever had an orgasm at the exact same time as a partner. It's ok if you want to keep trying to have an orgasm at the same time, but there's no magic way to make it happen, so don't get too disappointed if it doesn't. You're actually lucky you orgasm at all, a lot of women have trouble having an orgasm, especially during sex. So I'd say just keep doing pretty much what you have been doing. Try different positions, try stimulating yourself, use toys, etc. If it happens, consider yourself lucky. If it doesn't, no big deal. You two can still be just as close and enjoy sex just as much. Seconded! I have a hard time climaxing, it never happens, and it'd be a miracle if my boyfriend and I ever finished at the same time. But that doesn't stop us from having fun and enjoying ourselves, and each other. As Lorien said, if you want to keep trying for it, by all means go ahead. Just don't be disappointed if it doesn't happen. smile
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