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 Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 2:45 pm
ok i thank everyone for their support about me being pregnet but as much as i hate it i dont have my baby anymore.. i lost it on labor day.. i havent really been able to come on for awhile so i havent been able to update my post.. im sooo sorry but id really like to be friends with some of you
i lost my baby cuz it had no heartbeat it is surposed to get one at 5 weeks and i was 6 weeks along and there was none!!!! crying crying crying crying crying
for those that dont know i wrote about a month ago that i was pregnet and i was having problems with my man's family about it.. they didnt believe that it was his!!!
i was reallt stressed and wasnt sure what to do but i was dead against an abortion or adoption.. i just wasnt sure if i could make it through his family.. after i lost the baby i found out that i was just 6 weeks along.. it proved to them that it was his
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Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 1:06 am
I'm so sorry. That's terrible, but sometimes I wonder when these things happen if they are almost meant to be. While you were excited at the prospect of having a baby, perhaps it is better this way. It will be interesting for you to see how your life develops without a child for the time being, as I'm sure opportunities may present themselves that may not have been available if you had a baby to be taking care of.
While I've never been pregnant and can't really fathom the loss, I'm very sorry. It's strange how surprisingly common miscarriages are, though. I know that my mom had at least two that she was aware of (meaning she had six pregnancies total) and other than my dad's mothers 3 births, she had at least 15 other miscarriages... luckily with today's medicine if you plan on getting pregnant again in the future, there are probably medications or something out there to help you prevent a miscarriage again.
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Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:49 am
thank u very much.. i have noticed things that i can do that i wouldnt have been able to do but i would give them up just to have my baby back.. and as for them being common i realize that my mom had 2 before me my boyfriends mom had 3 or 4. one of them being twins.. so i understand that it is common and i have learned of the different things i can do to help in the future i just dont know if i can ever take that risk again.. its to heartbreaking..
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Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 10:52 am
I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
My cousin and my best friend have both experienced miscarriages and I know how hard it was on both of them. So I do feel for you.
On the other hand, my grandma always used to say that miscarriages were just nature's way of telling you that it wasn't time yet. And Reivena is correct, in this day and age, it is absolutely possible to go on to have perfectly healthy pregnancies and babies. Both my cousin and best friend did later have children who are both healthy and going strong.
Just try and look on the bright side and take advantage of any opportunities you may have now that you may have missed out on otherwise. There is always a silver lining even to the darkest cloud.
Just take things easy and think positively.
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 9:05 pm
I am sorry for your loss, dealing with the loss of a child is perhaps the most painful thing a young woman/woman can come to experience.
It is also unfortunate that your boyfriend's family did not believe you. If your relationship with him is to continue, perhaps any and all trust issues would be good to have dealt with. Also if you desire children in the future, take any and all steps necessary for preparation. Although it may be wise you wait a good while before you try to have another one, for the body needs time to heal, especailly after a miscarriage.
Stress has the worst impact other than drugs or alcohol on a pregnancy.
For the time being just lean on your boyfriend, and allow him to lean on you. Dealing with the loss of a child is best, when it is not done alone.
*Best of wishes and sincerest condolences*
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 3:43 pm
Ah, I'm sorry about that. It must be a little hard going through all that.
Parents are kind of ignorant I guess is the word when it comes to things like that. In some respects you can't really blame them though because they didn't know or most likely didn't know that he was sexually active.
Can't really say much on that since I haven't really gone through it myself.
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 4:44 pm
Im sorry for your loss hun. Anyone who has lost a child must experience pain worse then a knife going through your heart.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 8:20 am
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure it's a pain I can't even begin to imagine.
You'll get through this *hugs*
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 3:25 pm
That is really rough, although im sure youre saying "Ok ok, I know that already!" [hug]
Make sure to get support from your friends and family, are they being cooperative about your ordeal? How are you taking it?
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Posted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 5:41 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. {hug}
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 5:27 am
In some ways I'm sure it's a relief but hopefully you won't feel guilty for being relieved. My mother had a miscarriage once and she said it was painful physically as well as emotionally. I don't know if it always hurts but if it did then I'm sorry for that too! Take good care of yourself! 3nodding We're all here to support you. biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 10:38 am
Thats so sad!! crying
Sorry i dont really have any advice....
Just....things could be worse
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Posted: Sat Nov 22, 2008 4:49 pm
I can understand what thats like. I had the same situation happen to me, but I chose to have an abortion in my moment of weakness. I regret that so so much, and will for the rest of my life. I know that you can get through this. Its hard, but all you can do is try to move on. You'll have some beautiful babies one day, and you'll love them even more for it.
Oh and the trust issues with your boyfriends family will have to be dealt with or your relationship will suffer.
~Alexis~
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 1:36 pm
im so sorry i almost miscarried due to stress but i didnt thank god i have a healthy 4 month old daughter
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