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Jamethial

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:54 pm


I have an irrational fear of spirits and dead people. I have no idea why. And right now I'm staying with my grandparents to try to help them out. They stay at our cousin's guest house during the week and at thier own home on the weekends. Both of these places are haunted and I know because I can feel thier presences and one of them I have seen and had experiences with. Is there any way for me to get over my fears? These spirits aren't malevolent. In fact, one is my cousin's uncle. I just want to live in harmony with them and be free of the fear of seeing them...

Any helpful tips?
PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 6:22 am


Hm....
Maybe do a cleansing and then light a white candle and ask for them
to either leave the house or leave you alone.
Or if you don't want them to leave but don't want to see them,
you can convince/tell yourself that you won't.
:3
I hope I was a little helpful...

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 12:33 pm


It helps to think that they are people too, just without physical bodies. I also find that the more I research them, look for them, talk to them, think about them, etc, the more comfortable I become with them. The only thing to fear is fear itself. I've heard that spirits can't hurt you, so all you need to do is teach your subconscious that and tell it you have nothing to fear and that should help smile
PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:46 pm


For a problem such as this, I think the best thing would be to TRY to see them, while bringing a friend or a group of friends along to try and support you and help you out. It would be also best if you do it a little every once in a while, once in small doses of time that gradually increase so that your mind gradually, little by little, gets used to ghosts. I know of no way to lose the fear without actually seeing ghosts first.

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