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 Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 8:28 pm
What do you do when you've seen your friend on an amateur porn site?
First of all he's not eighteen yet and well i just feel weird.
I KNOW it's him but i feel like i can't look him in the eye, Sure he is a friend but now that i know this i feel all weird. I need to talk about this but i don't want to talk about it to him.
I feel weirded out.
D:
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 8:47 pm
First off, until you have positive ID that it is him and not someone who only really looks like him I wouldn't say anything to him or ever bring up the topic.
Example:
"So I seen you on a porn site"
"What the ********, I have no clue what you are talking about, you're a freak!"
OR
"...........WHAT. THE. HELL. GET AWAY FROM ME RIGHT NOW"
OR
"So, did you like what you seen?"
Yeah. Not a good thing.
Oh and if it creeps you out, well then quit watching it! gonk
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:07 pm
Trite~Elegy
"What the f**k, I have no clue what you are talking about, you're a freak!"
OR
"...........WHAT. THE. HELL. GET AWAY FROM ME RIGHT NOW"
i'm sorry but if anyone were to ever respond like tha they wouldn't be judgmental, close minded and immature i wouldn't want to be friends with a person if i might think they'd respond like tha. If you were to talk to him about it i would present it as a question, and ask him for an honest answer if you want to know for sure. if it really bugs you you might also ask him why. Ignorance is not always bliss. I actually never think its bliss. Relationships, whether its just friendship, or companionship need honesty to grow and keep.
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:26 pm
evanfeldkamp Trite~Elegy
"What the f**k, I have no clue what you are talking about, you're a freak!"
OR
"...........WHAT. THE. HELL. GET AWAY FROM ME RIGHT NOW"
i'm sorry but if anyone were to ever respond like tha they wouldn't be judgmental, close minded and immature i wouldn't want to be friends with a person if i might think they'd respond like tha. If you were to talk to him about it i would present it as a question, and ask him for an honest answer if you want to know for sure. if it really bugs you you might also ask him why. Ignorance is not always bliss. I actually never think its bliss. Relationships, whether its just friendship, or companionship need honesty to grow and keep.
Yeah, it's a friendship. They might talk about things of a sexual nature, but telling someone that you've seen them doing something sexual - like masturbating and they didn't know about it at the time or want you to have seen, can bring about any type of reaction including the negative.
Honestly, could you go up to one of your guy friends right now and tell them that you watched them touch themselves over the internet?
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:32 pm
First of all yeah it's him same username and everything... It's quite a funny story on how i found him... i googled his username the found i site with a funny name and well... Quote: Honestly, could you go up to one of your guy friends right now and tell them that you watch them touch themselves over the internet? I agree that if i were to bring that up then yeah they would give me an attitude. I just feel weird and feel like i can't talk to him or see him without that coming in to my head... You see i don't want that image but it's stuck in there.
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Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 7:05 am
Trite~Elegy evanfeldkamp Trite~Elegy
"What the f**k, I have no clue what you are talking about, you're a freak!"
OR
"...........WHAT. THE. HELL. GET AWAY FROM ME RIGHT NOW"
i'm sorry but if anyone were to ever respond like tha they wouldn't be judgmental, close minded and immature i wouldn't want to be friends with a person if i might think they'd respond like tha. If you were to talk to him about it i would present it as a question, and ask him for an honest answer if you want to know for sure. if it really bugs you you might also ask him why. Ignorance is not always bliss. I actually never think its bliss. Relationships, whether its just friendship, or companionship need honesty to grow and keep.
Yeah, it's a friendship. They might talk about things of a sexual nature, but telling someone that you've seen them doing something sexual - like masturbating and they didn't know about it at the time or want you to have seen, can bring about any type of reaction including the negative.
Honestly, could you go up to one of your guy friends right now and tell them that you watched them touch themselves over the internet?considering i have a very selective circle of friends yes.
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Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 8:39 am
I would just talk to him about it. I can't see why he would freak out, I mean he posted it, so he knows it's out there, right? When someone posts things on the internet they have to expect people, and possibly people they know, to see it.
Porn in general isn't a big deal illegal, and it's not illegal. But porn with people under 18 is a big deal, and it is illegal. So if I were you, I would probably just say something like, "Hey, I stumbled across that video you posted. If that's what you're into, that's fine. But don't forget that since you're under 18, that could potentially cause some legal problems." Maybe you could get him to agree to take the video down and put a new one up once he turns 18.
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Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 12:27 pm
If I caught a friend looking at him, I'd probably check to make sure it was the good stuff, Lol. Seriously, my friends and I we seriously don't hide anything. We all have admitted we watched porn, masturbated, etc. We are not rude or weird people, we just don't care, if its natural, then its ok to talk about, Lol.
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