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 Posted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:40 pm
i feel your pain but i;m UGLY and i know it
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Posted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:15 pm
Well i have this guy on my street and i love him absolutely hesadorable with those blue eyes and everything about him is awesome to mebut when i tried telling him i liked him he just said " What?! ewwwwwwww!" and he didnt talk to me for like a month
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Posted: Thu Nov 27, 2008 8:39 pm
I met a guy on Halloween night last year. I crushed on him for months and nearly a year later, I told him that I liked him because he was telling me about how he likes our friend Lauren and that it sucks not having any girls liking him. yeah, it made the rest of the night really awkward cause we kept talking till I was really tired. We didn't talk for a couple weeks after that. He sorta forgot that I told him that I liked him and he kept talking about Lauren ... I talked to her about it and she said that she only likes him as a brother and that she thinks it would be cool if me and Matt, thats his name, went out. The funny thing is that after I told him, it was like it didn't matter anymore and I realized a few days later that I liked him as a friend and that was that.
Then I met Sean. replay the Matt sequence minus the knowing him for a year and telling him I like him and him liking a friend of ours and him telling me so. Really nice and handsome guy. Smart, in school to be a nurse. I really thought he liked me but he was holding back. So then one night after he had been over at my house for dinner with me and my parents and 2 of my friends, I sent him a message telling him that it felt like he liked me a lot but he was holding back on it. he responded with sorry he confused me, he's focusing on school work and his own family issues and not thinking of relationships. that was about a month ago. I was hoping that he'd at least ask me out by my birthday ( which is in a couple days) but after that response, my heart gave up and now the flame I had in my heart for him is gone.
I've been wanting to get that out for a while. feels good.
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Posted: Sat Dec 13, 2008 11:35 pm
themugglegal I met a guy on Halloween night last year. I crushed on him for months and nearly a year later, I told him that I liked him because he was telling me about how he likes our friend Lauren and that it sucks not having any girls liking him. yeah, it made the rest of the night really awkward cause we kept talking till I was really tired. We didn't talk for a couple weeks after that. He sorta forgot that I told him that I liked him and he kept talking about Lauren ... I talked to her about it and she said that she only likes him as a brother and that she thinks it would be cool if me and Matt, thats his name, went out. The funny thing is that after I told him, it was like it didn't matter anymore and I realized a few days later that I liked him as a friend and that was that. Then I met Sean. replay the Matt sequence minus the knowing him for a year and telling him I like him and him liking a friend of ours and him telling me so. Really nice and handsome guy. Smart, in school to be a nurse. I really thought he liked me but he was holding back. So then one night after he had been over at my house for dinner with me and my parents and 2 of my friends, I sent him a message telling him that it felt like he liked me a lot but he was holding back on it. he responded with sorry he confused me, he's focusing on school work and his own family issues and not thinking of relationships. that was about a month ago. I was hoping that he'd at least ask me out by my birthday ( which is in a couple days) but after that response, my heart gave up and now the flame I had in my heart for him is gone. I've been wanting to get that out for a while. feels good.
I'm glad you were able to (even though this post is a bit late). It's heartbreaking when they don't feel the same way, but I guess it goes away eventually. There's more fish in the sea, as overused as that cliche is. 3nodding
And thanks to all that answered...good luck to you. <3
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 6:28 pm
TO ALL STORIES THIS APPLIES TO:
the key is to not make a big deal about about every thing he does
there are always multiple possible reasons for someones behavior
so you especially cant assume that the reason behind everything he does is based on you don't assume that something's wrong with you whenever he doesn't do something you secretly wish he would
besides, it seems to me like you already spend plenty of time with you. so what is it exactly you want to happen. do really want him to just come up to you out of the blue, and tell you he loves you hes always loved and he always will and that he want you two to grow up together get married and have kids, never ever having a personal relationship with anyone else. and that by then there won't be any cahnce that one of you will decide he/she doesn't love the other quite as much as they thought and someone ands up with a broken heart. and if one of you does end up with a broken heart then its gonna take a pretty long time to recover because if you never had a personal relationship with any one else, since at the time that would have seemed like cheating to him if he really likes as much as you want him to, then you'll pretty much be saring all over trying to meet people + the fact that you two'll have gained as "being together"
i'm sorry this is so long redface but i think you should ask yourself honestly what it is you really want. who knows, you might already have it
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 6:30 pm
try setting some short, long, and very long term goals
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 6:59 am
that kinda happened 2 me cause i told a friend(they were budding me and i didn't even use names)and then every1 knew and they asked him,he hasn't done anything so...iv kinda ruined the element of surpruse
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 4:46 pm
i have a guy in my life that does not like me bac.......
see im in this sourt of best friend group consisting of me my best friend and this guy ( i waill discis his name a bob). well i knew he liked my best friend( i will discuis her name as jill). ok so i new bob like jill and this other girl. then one day i decided to go out and tell bob that i liked him. he acted kind of like omg. so i was like weva but i still liked him ALOT then just recently all three of us where talkin on the phone and wat broke my heart was that he said he liked my best friend more then he had ever liked her b4. crying
read my other topic posted made by me and see wat u think about this.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 2:10 am
For the guys that I've liked and doesn't like me back, I moved on. It was easy for me because I never really talked to them. One turned out a total douchbag and another I just lost contact with ever nice Junior high.
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 11:43 am
You are all young and will get over it. Save the serious relationships for when you are older. Boys will be more mature then.
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Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 9:46 pm
June-iful TO ALL STORIES THIS APPLIES TO: the key is to not make a big deal about about every thing he does there are always multiple possible reasons for someones behavior so you especially cant assume that the reason behind everything he does is based on you don't assume that something's wrong with you whenever he doesn't do something you secretly wish he would besides, it seems to me like you already spend plenty of time with you. so what is it exactly you want to happen. do really want him to just come up to you out of the blue, and tell you he loves you hes always loved and he always will and that he want you two to grow up together get married and have kids, never ever having a personal relationship with anyone else. and that by then there won't be any cahnce that one of you will decide he/she doesn't love the other quite as much as they thought and someone ands up with a broken heart. and if one of you does end up with a broken heart then its gonna take a pretty long time to recover because if you never had a personal relationship with any one else, since at the time that would have seemed like cheating to him if he really likes as much as you want him to, then you'll pretty much be saring all over trying to meet people + the fact that you two'll have gained as "being together" i'm sorry this is so long redface but i think you should ask yourself honestly what it is you really want. who knows, you might already have it
Thank you so much for the honest reply, and to everyone that's replied afterwards. <3
I'm finding myself slipping back into it. Truthfully, I can't say whether or not he likes me. The only way for me to know is to ask him. I was close today...I'm getting too old to be shy about my feelings for anyone anyway. XD But I can honestly say that he no longer has that crazy "yellow fever"...in some cases, he's really matured and I find myself liking him more.
Oh well. XD Maybe I'm being silly and will get over it.
Good luck to the rest of you that posted recently. Maybe those people aren't for us anyway. <3 There's so many other good people.
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 1:58 pm
ok, well yeah, i like this guy name cayman and.. i mean some times i think he likes me other times i don't!! I haven't told him yet, but i want him to get the message!
also it kinda stinks, but you cant get a person to like you because it has to do with your DNA/hormones or something. Which makes it so you might like the person but they might not like you back
Ok so today my friends were like, Caroline, somethings going to suprise you, you'll find out soon enough. And i stood and stared at them. They laughed, and i was like, what, and they wouldn't tell me!!!!!!! neutral i know one of my friend knows i like him but im not sure about my other friend! Who knows my friend might have told the other.
anyways, my point is, do you think its about the guy i like!! or do i just wish it is!? sweatdrop redface
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 11:36 pm
I am your Mord Sith You are all young and will get over it. Save the serious relationships for when you are older. Boys will be more mature then.  I totally agree! Guys are real flaky and immature when they are young... even as they get older! My fiance is 29 and still is immature about a few little things but they mature a lot slower than girls do. I would say a 21 year old guy has ABOUT the maturity of about a 16 or 17 year old girl. I wouldn't take anything personally. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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Posted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 7:30 am
I have too liked a guy and he didn't like me back. This was my very first experience. My one guy best friend Jed, he geez....there was a lot to like about him...and then, the day I wanted to tell him that I liked him, he tells me (before I told him) that he has a girlfriend!!! crying I will never, ever forget it....but I forgive him, moved on and now, SINGLE! It's actually kool to be single truth be told.
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:36 pm
yeah i like someone who frankly im not really sure wat he feels but he is my best freind and my neighbor sweatdrop
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