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Lets just say, one walked in, but left us alone. My dad said, "How was it?" the next day. I said, "It was awesome!" and we had a little laugh about it. My mom was a little upset though. smile

My parents don't know...well they don't have any proof yet. But I think they have an idea of what's going on. They know we shared a hotel room on prom, they know we share tents at parties, they know we sleep over at people houses together, they know that he slept over when they were out of town a few times.

They seem to leave us alone when we're alone together. My mom had sex at a young age, so it would be hypocritical for her to get on my back about it. My parents trust me and know I'll be smart and safe. They like my boyfriend too. So I think I'm good.

I do plan on telling my mom that I'm going on birth control. I'm 18, and I can get it on my own, but I want to tell her out of respect since I'm still living under her roof. I don't want her to feel like I'm sneaking around behind her back and getting prescriptions for things like this.

My mommah doesn't know.
Well...like Malina said, she doesn't have proof.

But sometimes when I go over to his house or when he comes over she'll tell me to behave.
And she leaves us alone whenever we're upstairs with the door shut.
Doesn't come up once...so she probably knows we're doing something, just maybe not all...I don't really know.

My mom sorta realized it when I kept keeping my door closed.

Me and my gf are really quiet so she didnt hear anything but she used deductive reasoning to find out.

When she asked I told her the truth.

The only reason my parents ever found out was because my ex girlfriends parents found out (her dad asked and she told him) and i didnt want her dad to be the one to tell my parents so i did...she wasnt mad all she told me was to make sure my girlfriend got on birth control...but now with my new gf...my step dad walked in on us and wasnt too happy and my mom doesn't want me having sex with her i guess its because she's a foster kid and if someone were to find out she'd be sent away but idk

I've never come out and told my parents I was having sex. When I started dating the boyfriend I'm with now, we were living together from day 1, and so because we had only one bedroom (well 2, but one was a games room) they used deductive logic to assume we were sleeping together.

Thankfully, they assume (at least I think they assume) that I went on birth control and started being sexually active when I started dating my current boyfriend. They don't know that I lost my virginity and went on birth control with my very first boyfriend at 17, and I'd like it to stay that way. ninja

Sex is an uncomfortable topic in my family because my parents' didn't want to talk about it. Maybe they thought I wouldn't understand or I'd have too many questions - I don't know. My family, both my parent's and my grandparent's generations, is rather traditional. Sex and love are not things that were really discussed when I was growing up. Thankfully I read a lot when I was younger, discovered romance novels, and my self-taught sex education went from there. I knew by middle school what some people in high school (or older) still don't know.


So I guess yes, now my parents know I am sexually active, they just don't know the full story behind it. I never said anything, they used logic to figure it out for themselves.

i'm still a virgin but i don't think i would want a conversation with my parents about sex. i'm 13 and sometimes i get a lust for sex so i'm trying to ask my girlfriend for more intimate things then hugging and kissing and i think she trying to ask the same thing but we are both nervous about the topic because i don't want to seem like i'm forcing her cause really i'm not :3