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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 1:28 pm
Like many fans of Yu Yu Hakusho, I have a tendency to believe that Hiei has some misogynistic, or woman-hating, qualities about him. Perhaps this doesn't equate to full hatred of females, or perhaps it only applies to the ice apparitions who birthed him. In any case, I have recently been wondering--is this belief based on conjecture and hypothesizing, actual canonical evidence, or just a whim, similar to the "sweet snow" rumors about Hiei?
It's easy to see why one could say that Hiei dislikes women. He was born into a society of cold, frozen demons who, because he was male, threw him off a cliff and treated him like trash. This would create a sort of dislike for women, at the very least those women, in pretty much any person. But is that enough to say, with confidence, that Hiei dislikes all women?
And honestly, how much canonical evidence is there to support this claim? It's true that Hiei hates the ice apparitions, as seen in his ruthless search for them and his would-be murder of the species. (Then again, perhaps the fact that he didn't kill them shows that he doesn't hate women after all.) And this is to be expected. But does that hatred translate over to other women?
Hiei doesn't hate Yukina, that's for sure. Of course, that's also to be expected, because though she is a woman, she's his sister. It's possible that he makes an exception for her and her only.
If it's true that there is canonical evidence for Hiei's dislike of women, then how strong is it? Does the emotion border on hate, or is it just a mere disrespect in the aspect that women aren't as physically dominate as men (usually)?
Another element to this predicament is, of course, Mukuro. It's canonically implied--not proven--that they have some sort of romantic relationship. Does that then imply that Mukuro changes Hiei's mind about women, or does he simply make another excuse for her as he might do with Yukina?
Perhaps part of the reason the idea that Hiei dislikes women is widespread is because it's a sort of ideal quality in that sort of character, similar to the way Kuwabara won't fight women. Hiei has an honor code and yet he can be cruel, so to some fans it could be seen as an interesting or desirable quality that he doesn't respect women as fighters, almost a kind of reverse chivalry. Also, the thought that Hiei dislikes women due to his past could be considered more comforting than the idea that Hiei is indifferent toward everyone but himself and his immediate family and closest friends. Often dislike is more poignant than indifference.
There's also the fact that it could be considered more romantic for Hiei and Mukuro to be in love if Hiei previously disliked most women, the same sort of logic of those who pair Hiei with a human.
I do not deny that there is sufficient reason to think that Hiei would have ill will toward women. But I will say that there is a lack of actual, solid canonical evidence for this claim, which is true of a lot of beliefs about Hiei and other YYH characters.
So, feel free to discuss whether Hiei's a woman-hater, the canon's evidence for or against the claims, and various other related topics. Please be sure to argue politely with me and each other. We all enjoy a rousing debate!
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Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2008 5:40 pm
It's probably more like everyone has to earn his respect/care.
Yukina is faimly that has yet to reject him so he cares about her. But the Koorime did so he doesn't like them.
In a way it's kinda like how a young child doesn't like strangers because they are afraid of them. Men or women, Hiei isn't openly friendly but rather the other person must demonstrate a kind of 'friendlyness' or something like that, that will earn his trust.
It's probably more a matter of he doesn't interact with alot of woman, so we don't have many bases for comparison.
At the very least we have proof he can get along with woman and be protective (Yukina) or see woman as equals (Mukuro)
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Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 10:49 pm
Hahaha! Hiei doesn't like ANYONE! XD
I think this arose because people read Hiei's background, saw a few epis with Botan and Hiei together thus decided "Alright Hiei doesn't like women."
>3>
Not true. I think because Hiei doesn't ESPECIALLY pick on the shows' females, that it's quite safe to say Hiei is NOT a misogynist. Also, I think it was quite merciful of him not to destroy the entire Koorime Village when he arrived, wouldn't you? : )
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Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 11:47 pm
You know, after re-reading this post, I think I went about it the wrong way. I should have provided all the reasons Hiei would be considered a misogynist first, then let you guys rip them apart. XD Talk about hindsight.
The reason I brought this up is because I was mostly curious, but now that I think about it, it kind of makes sense that he would be, at least to a degree, because of the fact that women are considered "weak" in most shonen anime, if not our own culture.
Hiei prizes strength, and it would make sense for him to dislike the weaker of the species. Then again, there are female fighters (such as Genkai) who he would reserve respect for, in general...to be honest, I'm not sure if Hiei would buy into the stereotype of the weak woman, though he did buy into the ones about humans being stupid and fit to be demonic slaves...
I don't know about him not picking on the show's females, if only because he's not around them very much. I mean, except for a few episodes where girls were just thrown into the mix, he doesn't interact with any of them but Yukina, Botan, and Genkai, and Genkai might be an exception to the general rule due to the fact that she's a powerful fighter and Yusuke's mentor. As you pointed out, he doesn't care for Botan, and Yukina's his sister, so she's also an exception.
Also, I don't know that the koorime's gender had much to do with whether he killed them all or not. I mean, it did have a bearing on why he was banished, but I don't know that he decided to spare them because they were women, you know? Feel totally free to disagree; it's not as fun if we all come to the same conclusion.
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Posted: Mon Jul 20, 2009 1:01 am
Hahaha! Woot! Debates are fun! XD
Okay, I can definitely see Hiei looking down upon women as being a weaker part of a species, however, I don't think he'd be completely prejudiced just because of how many times he's been proven wrong. Look at all our favorite females! Shizuru, Keiko, Botan, Genkai, Yukina, Mukuro, and in the manga, even ATSUKO! All of them have all disproved any prejudiced he perhaps held in the past. Yes, I COULD see Hiei being a misogynist at the beginning. Seeing just the snide, somewhat sexist comments he made towards Botan and Keiko during the Shadow Sword fight, HOWEVER, I don't think he is in any form at all by the end of the Dark Tourney, and ESPECIALLY after Mukuro. : )
As for the Koorime, I think you misinterpreted what I was saying. I was not implying that he spared the village because it was full of women. I was saying if he held a hatred for women, he probably would've destroyed the entire village while there after getting the information he needed. In fact, I wonder if he would even SEARCH for his mother if he was a misogynist! And to leave her friend alive as he left the village was a feat all on it's own to me! : D
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Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2009 3:43 pm
havishanta Hahaha! Woot! Debates are fun! XD Okay, I can definitely see Hiei looking down upon women as being a weaker part of a species, however, I don't think he'd be completely prejudiced just because of how many times he's been proven wrong. Look at all our favorite females! Shizuru, Keiko, Botan, Genkai, Yukina, Mukuro, and in the manga, even ATSUKO! All of them have all disproved any prejudiced he perhaps held in the past. Yes, I COULD see Hiei being a misogynist at the beginning. Seeing just the snide, somewhat sexist comments he made towards Botan and Keiko during the Shadow Sword fight, HOWEVER, I don't think he is in any form at all by the end of the Dark Tourney, and ESPECIALLY after Mukuro. : ) Well, like I said, Genkai is a strong fighter, and so is Mukuro. I don't think he would necessarily think of any of those others as "strong." I mean, they're not fighters, and while Shizuru and Keiko keep Yusuke and Kuwabara in line, that doesn't make them necessarily strong (it just makes the boys weak in some ways. lol. ) I agree with you that Mukuro changed a lot about him, but it could be that he made an exception for her. Quote: As for the Koorime, I think you misinterpreted what I was saying. I was not implying that he spared the village because it was full of women. I was saying if he held a hatred for women, he probably would've destroyed the entire village while there after getting the information he needed. In fact, I wonder if he would even SEARCH for his mother if he was a misogynist! And to leave her friend alive as he left the village was a feat all on it's own to me! : D Hmm...I thought you were saying that Hiei not destroying the village was proof that he wasn't a misogynist. lol. Now I'm getting confused. At any rate, I'm not sure about him not killing Hina's friend. I don't think anyone knows why he didn't just kill her (not that I wanted him to.) As I recall, his reason for leaving them in peace was because "they are already dead." Which I really loved hearing for some reason; it painted a great picture to me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:09 am
Quote: Well, like I said, Genkai is a strong fighter, and so is Mukuro. I don't think he would necessarily think of any of those others as "strong." I mean, they're not fighters, and while Shizuru and Keiko keep Yusuke and Kuwabara in line, that doesn't make them necessarily strong (it just makes the boys weak in some ways. lol. ) Haha. True true. However, does him NOT viewing them as strong make him HATE them? And I've also read a very good fan fic in which Hiei...eh...let me direct you some where. Lol, it's easier to see if you just READ it. Candles. You don't need to read the first two parts, just scroll down to the third to see my point, however it is a very good fan fic, lol, so if you'd like to read the rest go ahead. : D Quote: I agree with you that Mukuro changed a lot about him, but it could be that he made an exception for her. Perhaps, and it is true that he didn't see her gender beforehand. HOWEVER, I just think that if he WERE a Misogynist, there would be more obvious signs. More thoughts spoken aloud and more things, especially with such a big transformation of making an exception for her. Quote: Hmm...I thought you were saying that Hiei not destroying the village was proof that he wasn't a misogynist. lol. Now I'm getting confused. At any rate, I'm not sure about him not killing Hina's friend. I don't think anyone knows why he didn't just kill her (not that I wanted him to.) As I recall, his reason for leaving them in peace was because "they are already dead." Which I really loved hearing for some reason; it painted a great picture to me. That's actually what I AM saying. Okay, let me attempt to walk you through this with my terrible explanation skills. Lol Hiei's hatred for women began with the koorime, yes? If Hiei truly hated them, would he go out looking for them then NOT destroy them. Really? Does that seem AT ALL characteristic to you? Him NOT going in for the kill. Him NOT taking revenge. You know, you COULD argue with the line "they are already dead." (Which by the way, I LOVED that line too. Oh my gosh I was sitting in my chair laughing for a good five minutes just because it was such a HIEI thing to say) but if he truly harbored THAT much hatred for them and that much prejudiced after growing up in a band of killing thieves, and remember, this was before Yusuke. Before everything. Before the Hiei WE REALLY KNOW. Where what mattered was killing. Winning. Nothing else... Would he REALLY just let them live if he loathed them to the very depths of his soul? Would he REALLY just walk away? I think him walking away with they "they are already dead" line, was a sign of somewhat pity. He was above the koorime. Now, I think that it's very safe to say that he didn't like the koorime, in the least. But if he was REALLY a misogynist, I don't think he even would have SEARCHED for his mother after what the koorime did to him. I don't think he would have searched for Yukina either. I think he would have just given up hope just like that. Just said "It's a woman? No. Screw it." But he DIDN'T. He DIDN'T. I think that's my entire point here. If he was a misogynist he would've done this and this and this but he DIDN'T. Lol XD
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 1:40 am
I think our interpretations of the word "misogynist" are a bit different. For me, the term just means someone who doesn't like women much. I don't think he hates them, and obviously I don't know whether I would agree that he is in fact a misogynist, but it's hard to find evidence to prove that he isn't--almost as hard as it is to prove that he is.
By the time he found out that Mukuro was a girl, if I recall, he already knew her too well to be much impressed by it. It would be stupid, even for a misogynist, to go back on his liking of her just because of what she is, especially since she is a general exception to the general stereotypes of femininity. (Perhaps it would be closer if I said that Hiei doesn't like human women.)
I think Hiei's hatred for the koorime goes beyond blanketing a hatred for women. I think he hated them more than he has anyone in his entire life, and while that might have been a cause as to his apparent misogyny, it wasn't a symptom, as far as I can see.
As far as I knew, he was looking for them to destroy them. But when he arrived, two things changed: one, he realized that they were already dead. (I know, I mentioned it already, but it seems plausible that he meant it a different way; they were already dead to him, and perhaps it seemed like more of a torture to let them sit, forever frozen, in a stagnant pool of their own tears and ice, than to release them with death.)
The other thing I think he discovered (if he didn't already know) is that, when he showed up and saw how fearful they were of him, they fully expected him to kill them. They had gone so far to kill him because it was fated that he would bring around the deaths of the koorime and come back for revenge. Therefore, his refusing to bow to that fate was two actions in one: he proved that he was not what they knew he was. They tried to kill him because they thought he would destroy them--him not doing so plainly said, "You were wrong."
The other thing is that it defeated fate itself. Later, he talks about fate right before going to the Makai tourney, but I've always thought that Hiei would be someone to find the idea of fate ridiculous; if you are strong enough, you create your own fate. It's part of his control issues. Him defying what it was fated that he would do was a big slap in the face for whatever force powered him; "I am not going to fulfill this destiny. I make my own choices." It would really bother him to think that fate, or kismet, had control over his actions.
Like I've said a few times, his family would be exceptions to that misogyny. Also, we don't know why exactly he was looking for his mother; is it ever stated why he wanted to find her? Perhaps Yukina was different in that she was his twin--she might be able to understand. Also like I said, my definition of "misogyny" wouldn't necessarily include him writing off his entire past because it involved a woman--just that he doesn't value them as much or care for them as much.
(By the way, I liked the fic. I think the author exaggerated Shizuru's fighting ability, but...hey. Whatcha gonna do? I'm writing my own fic about Hiei and why he chose not to kill the koorime when he did, so this discussion is helping me flesh out my ideas. ^^)
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 7:13 pm
Alright alright. I'm starting to see a point. However, I'd just like to add that MANY males and even society TODAY looks down upon women as the weaker part of the species. Sure there are feminists and such, but there's always going to be that stereotype of the caged, worthless housewife that'll hold them down.
Sure, I think Hiei has a small dislike to woman, but I don't think it so much as prejudices him against them or anything in that manner. It's just that he's seen so many examples that prove him wrong that he's accepted the I really don't think he can categorize as a misogynist anymore. In general, Hiei just doesn't like weakness, and even beyond that, he looks down on everyone. He doesn't have a COMPLETE god-complex, but it's pretty darn close to one, you know?
I don't think it's really a dislike for women that's the problem, you know? : )
(Glad you liked the fic. It's on my favorites. I love his reaction at the end. ^^)
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