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Is he really worth it?

Your_Gaurdian_Angel92

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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:41 am

Okay so theres this guy i like a lot and one of my friends was talking to him and he doesn't know if he even liked me when we first started going out four months ago. he says he's confused and doesn't know how he feels and its tearing me up because i don't know if i should keep dating him even though i don't have a clue how he feels or to brake it off with him before i end up getting hurt again.

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:22 pm

you are going to have to sit down and talk with him. and if he still doesn't know how he feels maybe you guys should give each other space.

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shani26
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 11:27 am

What his reason of not knowing?

Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:57 pm

I agree with meleny. Why is he dating you if he doesn't know how he feels? Tell him you need to talk and sort things out. Tell him how you feel and ask him to tell you his true feelings about you. Good luck I hope things work out for you!

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loving_sorrow

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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:44 am

Talk it out.
And always remember that;;
NO GUY IS REALLY EVER WORTH IT...

Posted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 9:22 am

You have to ask yourself: if he wasn't sure four months ago and still isnt, why is he still going out with you?

Is there something you are offering him that he can't get else where?

Is he using you?

If he isn't, then just WHY!?

Sounds like he may need his space to figure this one out

If you like him enough to stick around that is. And if you do like him enough, you definately need to have a talk with him. Tell him why you like him- maybe it will help unconfuse (is that a word?) his head.

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a midnight dream

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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:16 am

Confront him..

Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 1:15 pm

a midnight dream

Confront him..

i agree. i know from personal experience that dating a guy that doesn't know his own feelings is bad.
in my case the relationship lasted a week. by the end, he was dating someone else.

i'd really hate to see that happen to you. talk to him, and if he doesn't know after that, break up with him before you get hurt.

Gerbil_of_the_Vashness

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I Kero I

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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 7:57 pm

Since he's confused, cease dating until he comes to a realization.

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 5:18 pm

I solemnly swear I am up to no good.

I'm in the same situation...
reversed. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
Maybe there's something in the way, and he just
isn't ready or something. Distance yourself a little because
it might end up that you guys break up. But don't let
yourself get hurt. Let him sort it out, but it doesn't mean
get mad or sad or anything. Talking might help, but he
probably needs to think it out.

Mischief managed.

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