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Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 4:29 pm

im kinda new and im just trying to see if i am bi or gay so guys please pm me

Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 5:19 pm

I'm not a guy...but i believe you'd just know...no one can really tell you..sorry if im not helping

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lovablehuggablemilli

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Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 5:41 pm

im not a guy but i helped my friend w. the same ? i told him to get w. a guy an if he liked it N liked a girl he was bi but if he felt akward w. a guy he was str8 or if he felt weird w. a girl he was gay thats a way to kno
hopefully i helped u a lil

Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 5:59 pm

Think of it this way: Can you live the rest of you life without a relationship with a woman? Can you live the rest of you life without a relationship with a man? Or neither? If the first, then you're straight, if the seccond, then you're gay, if the third, then you're bi. xd

Suoh

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insomniac_25

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Posted: Fri Sep 23, 2005 3:29 pm

Suoh

Think of it this way: Can you live the rest of you life without a relationship with a woman? Can you live the rest of you life without a relationship with a man? Or neither? If the first, then you're straight, if the seccond, then you're gay, if the third, then you're bi. xd

*nods* XD
that's basically it
have a look at some tasty gay porn, if it works, and i mean honestly works not *oo i want it to work* works, then go with it
if you are, you'll feel it
if you aren't just leave it

Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 10:53 pm

it's not something somebody else can just tell you... you've got to be doing someting with a guy *or thinking about it* and be able to say to yourself "yeah, I have no problem with that, I don't see why other guys do..." Something like that....
you don't have to like buttsex or anyhting... if you can see yourself in a serious relationship with somebody of the same gender, then you might be bi.

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Kahri

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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 3:51 pm

Klein Grid http://www.technostud.com/public/newsite/klein.html (you can leave things blank that don't apply to you and it will still work)

Or

Kinsey Scale http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html

Neither of these can make this decision for you, but I hope they help. Both of these scales use the logic that if you have been attracted to a girl you are at least partially bi.