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 Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 9:12 am
my gf is pregnant and i dunno wot to do plz help
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 9:18 am
1) Please read the rules again before you post, or else you'll get a warning. Consider this your remind. This should probably have gone in the pregnancy sticky, as per the guild's rules. If you break another rule, you'll get a warning.
2) Has she taken at least 1 pregnancy test to be sure she's pregnant? If so, then she needs to see a doctor as soon as possible, and you will both need to tell your parents. There is no way around either of those things - you're both minors I'm presuming, so your parents need to know because they are your legal guardians, and because they're going to find out sooner or later anyways.
Then your girlfriend needs to see the doctor to get pre-natal care, which is for the sake of her health and her baby's health. The doctor can also help her decide whether or not she's going to get an abortion, try adoption, or raise the baby herself. I'd probably suggest abortion or adoption if you're both young.
We can't help you two any further than that. You two made the choice to have sex, now you two have to deal with the consequences. Tell your parents and then get your girlfriend to go see a doctor asap.
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 9:20 am
she has but i dont no anything shes keeping it quite from me
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 9:28 am
That's a really stupid move on her part. Tell her she NEEDS to tell you what is up with her, how pregnant she is, etc. You have a right to know.
If she refuses to tell you, tell her parents, and then tell yours, because they're going to find out sooner or later.
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 12:35 pm
You are going to have to be supportive...it is a really hard thing for a tgeenage girl to go through...just be supportive talk to her...assure her that you are going to stay by her side...because most guys ditch the gf you have to be supportive
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 4:07 pm
If she won't come to you and talk to you, then you should go to her. Communication is going to be the best thing for you both right now. You both need to decide what you're going to do. Then you need to tell your parents. You should be supportive of whatever she decides to do, but don't be afraid to voice your opinion as well. Good luck.
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:24 pm
I agree with what has been said. As a father, you need to take responsibility right away.
First things first, get her to a doctor. She needs to start working on her vitamins and such RIGHT AWAY. Make sure she gets plenty of folic acid (it's probably too late since your child's spine and brain are probably largely formed by now, but still).
The next step is to talk about whether or not you want to keep it. Are you willing to help support a child? Is she willing? How do you both feel about abortion? Adoption? Just remember that she is the one who will have to carry the bulk of the stress, so while you should absolutly give her your opinion, you must respect whatever decision she ends up making.
Ideally, you, her, her parents, and your parents should all get together and talk this out. Best of luck to you both.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 4:23 pm
just stay by her side and give her the comfort she needs, this is very hard on you but this is extremely hard on her...so be there for her
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 6:44 am
winter_kitty You are going to have to be supportive...it is a really hard thing for a tgeenage girl to go through...just be supportive talk to her...assure her that you are going to stay by her side...because most guys ditch the gf you have to be supportive
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