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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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 Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 2:36 pm
ok, this is kinda for any chick who's les/bi/trans/pans out there, mainly. so i dunno about you, but i've heard 3 times that only guys are born that way and that girls CHOOSE to be that way. that is the most sexist s**t i've ever heard! but i think a lot of it is due to that stupid girls gone wild s**t where you see drunk girls going at it. it makes it look as if we have to be shitfaced to want a chick! and have you heard that song "i kissed a girl"? she said it was an accident and that she was drinking. she also referred to the girl as her experimental game. i dunno about you, but that would make me almost cry! i mean, all of this s**t is horrible!
ok, i'm sure that a lot of guys have been told it's a choice/phase, but i was recently told guys can be born that way but girls can't and it pissed me off. sorry.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:57 pm
Yeah I've heard that too.
It really pisses me off.
Some other stuff I've heard along the same lines:
'Lesbian relationships get broken up over guys and gay men never break up over girls.'
'Gay guys never liked girls, but more often than not, gay girls have liked guys at some point.'
Bullshit.
Sorry, but it annoys me so much. I'm gay and I've never had any feelings for a guy and I'm sick of people not beleiving that and saying 'but how could you have never liked a guy?'
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:01 pm
It's stupid people trying to think of an excuse to why a girl wishes to like girls. It is a way to hurt us and make others feel better about themselves.
They think that if they can hurt us, we are the weaker beings. When in fact it is the exact opposite. It takes alot of strength for us to stand up and actually be proud about our sexuality.
Now I have never heard anyone say that, but besides the point. I have heard that song, though. And something has happened to all of us to realize we are not straight. Whether it is looking a little to closely at the cheerleaders during a football game, or having a crush on your hot teacher that wears her shirts just a little lowcut. Or a guy that gets a tad excited by watching the guy next to him undress in the locker room.
Something happened. In the song, her realization action is kissing a girl at a party. Granted the song sucks and I'm not quite defending it, but there can be a point to it. It's not just saying we get drunk and hook up with other girls.
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 7:11 am
I think i actually believe that some people may choose it, while other people are born with it. I don't think I can explain, but you can even see poser bi's and gays now. I Kissed A Girl does that singer write her own songs or does she have to sing what ever the producer tros at her?
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 8:26 am
my religious friend doesn't have anything against Gays so i am happy, but she refuses to beleive that "God" created Gays, and that orientation is ALL choice. ><"" I beleive it is all choice but many of my other friends say they were born like that.
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 9:47 pm
I_Am_Emo_Lover_2007 I think i actually believe that some people may choose it, while other people are born with it. I don't think I can explain, but you can even see poser bi's and gays now. I Kissed A Girl does that singer write her own songs or does she have to sing what ever the producer tros at her? i know what your saying. i don't get the logic in posing gay. but what about the people who are actually born gay? like, the people who can't imagine loving the opposite sex? it's not right that just because we're girls people say we're just posers! i hate that they say that. it's beyond messed up.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:01 am
the_forgotten_thought I_Am_Emo_Lover_2007 I think i actually believe that some people may choose it, while other people are born with it. I don't think I can explain, but you can even see poser bi's and gays now. I Kissed A Girl does that singer write her own songs or does she have to sing what ever the producer tros at her? i know what your saying. i don't get the logic in posing gay. but what about the people who are actually born gay? like, the people who can't imagine loving the opposite sex? it's not right that just because we're girls people say we're just posers! i hate that they say that. it's beyond messed up. I mean, why do people pose as gays and bis? Unless they are just people who are sex addicts and don't care who they do.... It really is sad to see that people actually pose as what their not.
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:04 am
the_forgotten_thought I_Am_Emo_Lover_2007 I think i actually believe that some people may choose it, while other people are born with it. I don't think I can explain, but you can even see poser bi's and gays now. I Kissed A Girl does that singer write her own songs or does she have to sing what ever the producer tros at her? i know what your saying. i don't get the logic in posing gay. but what about the people who are actually born gay? like, the people who can't imagine loving the opposite sex? it's not right that just because we're girls people say we're just posers! i hate that they say that. it's beyond messed up. I mean what is the point as posing as us? i mean, we get insulted alot. Not to mention how we get treated the way that we are. I mean the only logical reason i can see behind posing the way we are is just because their a sex addict that dosnt care who they do....
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:23 am
ok, so i did NOT choose to be this way, but even so i wouldn't change it-i love myself the way i am and my REAL friends and family love me BECAUSE i am who and what i am, not in spite of it-those who don't i ignore stare
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Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:46 am
i read a book about the female mind that says it's wired into your brain at birth/during the growth, or as you're growing up. sometimes it's effected by the atmosphere you're it. but that's bull that only guys are born that way. it's the same for both sexes, it's wired into you, and there's not much you can do about it, I guess... or atleast that's what i read and stuff, i'm not a scientist sweatdrop
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:02 pm
Lost_Forever_Soul i read a book about the female mind that says it's wired into your brain at birth/during the growth, or as you're growing up. sometimes it's effected by the atmosphere you're it. but that's bull that only guys are born that way. it's the same for both sexes, it's wired into you, and there's not much you can do about it, I guess... or atleast that's what i read and stuff, i'm not a scientist sweatdrop man, people need to read that book cuz most people will believe anything that they read! i hate being told it's a lie. mad
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Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 7:29 pm
I just allow people to be willfully ignorant. They are the ones that will lose in the long run.
We know who and what we are. Why do we need the approval from everybody else? Why do we need them to tell us we were born this way, when we already know it?
Who cares if they don't believe it? That's just as bad as the Crusades killing people because they did not believe in the Catholic faith. We are expecting everyone to believe the same as we do, knowing that we can't do that.
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Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 6:52 am
i dont really think its wired into you...just that you can't help who your attracted too.
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