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 Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 5:47 pm
I am a young teen and I'm so sexually turned on to older guy...And I don't mean like 20 year olds..I mean hairy and honry middle aged men(30-50)... >//<
I almost want to look up a for a child molester or try to rape a teacher..o_0
Is this normal? Or should I talk to a personal?
PLUS I'm a lesbian...soo Its really confusing and frustation for me...Help!?
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 8:25 am
We can't necessarily choose who or what we're attracted to, so I wouldn't say you're abnormal because of your attraction. However, I would say that it's an attraction that has the potential to be dangerous. If you're really tempted to look for a child molester or to try to seduce an older man, then yes, I would say you should talk to a professional about it. Unusual fetishes or interests don't have to be bad as long as we can control ourselves. For example, instead of actually finding a much older man when you're very young, you could do things like role play with a partner closer to your age and have him or her pretend to be older. Or you could wait until you're at least a legal adult and the age difference wouldn't be as great.
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 1:20 am
LorienLlewellyn We can't necessarily choose who or what we're attracted to, so I wouldn't say you're abnormal because of your attraction. However, I would say that it's an attraction that has the potential to be dangerous. If you're really tempted to look for a child molester or to try to seduce an older man, then yes, I would say you should talk to a professional about it. Unusual fetishes or interests don't have to be bad as long as we can control ourselves. For example, instead of actually finding a much older man when you're very young, you could do things like role play with a partner closer to your age and have him or her pretend to be older. Or you could wait until you're at least a legal adult and the age difference wouldn't be as great. Seconded. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:54 pm
Having fantasies is okay. You don't have to make them all real. I'm guessing you don't know many old men too well (most young people don't) so there might not be anyone that you could trust enough to have sex with - then just keep on with your fantasies! If you feel fine with it. If the attraction buggers you, go talk to someone.
Even if you have fantasies about men, you can be a lesbian 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 2:21 pm
hmm.. with out sounding really mean here. I'm tryin not to..that certainly is not my intent at all.
do you think its possible your just young and your hormones are raging so your kindof confused about your whole exsistance in sexuality?
I don't think you can be a full blown lesbian and be atracted to men period....so maybe your just bi, but swing more towards the girls?
I know thats totally not what you were asking..it just came to mind.
anyways. Untill your older, i would hold off and having sex with an older guy..like ***** type older guy.
Because its kindof mean to tempt some one like that when theres a HUUUUUUUUUUGE risk in him going to prision for it and guys like that in prision are on special lock down cause they get killed in normal prision.
I agree with just keeping it a fantasy, for now anyways. After your 18, you can do a guy whos 30 no problem. Infact I know a girl who actually married a 30 year old guy at 18.
I fantasize about having sex with a girl some times but, i personally don't feel that would be a great idea for my relationship with my husband..so i don't go there, and just enjoy the fantasy aspect of it all.
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