I stand by my original statement:

Every guy is an a*****e.

Every girl is a b***h.

Show me a "nice guy" and I'll show you a jerk.

I'm dating what most people would consider a "nice guy" but he's smart enough to describe himself as an a*****e, which elevates him much higher above the guys that parade around claiming they are and are just as self-centered as your typical a*****e.

I agree, some people are less so than others, but nobody is perfect, and most of the guys I've known claim to be "nice guys" have done some of the shittiest things to me. I prefer jerks, you can trust them to be jerks, and they don't try to cover it up because it's impossible since they're so nice--they admit they're assholes and you move on.