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 Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 6:53 pm
I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend recently had sex for the first time... It wasn't bad, I was a little sore at first, but it wasn't too painful. I didn't bleed or anything like that. I felt fine afterwards too, I didn't feel like anything was wrong.
Today I wanted to see if having sex made me a little looser. I find it did, but at the front of the inside of my v****a the spongy feeling part seemed a little bumpy and uneven. Is this normal or do I have something torn inside my v****a?
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Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 7:34 pm
Sounds normal to me, but if you're worried then you should go see a doctor. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:44 am
Sounds normal to me, but now that you're sexually active you have to see an ob-gyn anyway, so he or she would be able to tell you if they see anything abnormal (rips, tears, redness, swelling, unusual discharge, etc.).
If you found that sex was a little uncomfortable or made you sore, it might be a sign that you need more lubrication. You can buy a water-based lubricant from the store.
As for sex making a girl looser, that's just a myth. The v****a stays the same before and after sex. Having a baby can permanently stretch out your v****a, but having sex will not. The v****a is made of some very delicate, but very elastic, tissue that can stretch quite a bit when properly lubricated then bounce right back. So many people buy into the myth because girls usually feel tighter their first time or two, but that's simply due to being nervous, being tense, and not being properly lubricated. After the girl gets more comfortable with sex and with her partner, she will generally feel looser simply because her body relaxed.
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:23 am
LorienLlewellyn Sounds normal to me, but now that you're sexually active you have to see an ob-gyn anyway, so he or she would be able to tell you if they see anything abnormal (rips, tears, redness, swelling, unusual discharge, etc.). If you found that sex was a little uncomfortable or made you sore, it might be a sign that you need more lubrication. You can buy a water-based lubricant from the store. As for sex making a girl looser, that's just a myth. The v****a stays the same before and after sex. Having a baby can permanently stretch out your v****a, but having sex will not. The v****a is made of some very delicate, but very elastic, tissue that can stretch quite a bit when properly lubricated then bounce right back. So many people buy into the myth because girls usually feel tighter their first time or two, but that's simply due to being nervous, being tense, and not being properly lubricated. After the girl gets more comfortable with sex and with her partner, she will generally feel looser simply because her body relaxed. QFT. Vaginas aren't just slippery slidey shiny soft untextured walls, they've definitely got texture to them! Mine has a sort of bump and ridges along the front. You're perfectly normal in all likelihood, and the best way of not tearing anything is to have lots of lube. You don't become 'looser' from more sex, you just get more used to it. I'm probably as tight as the day I lost my virginity, but I know what to expect from sex now. I know how it feels, so it's not so weird. And I can definitely relax more. You will get used to it, promise. ^_^
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