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 Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 7:52 pm
I need help...
I know some of you might have this trouble as well. or maybe its just me... but well how do you tell your parents or family that you have a bf/gf or friend on the internet and you would like them to come over for a week or so..or you go over to there place... though they might live far away.. but your parents are against that type of stuff, because of all the kidnapings and rapes... etc...
Do some of you know what to do in those cases?
Im sorry... I might not have explained this properly...
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 7:32 pm
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 7:53 pm
My mum wasn't concerned when i said i was going to travel 4 hours to meet my now ex. But she's cool like that, lol. Just introduced him/her as a friend first, tell them what you want to do and get them chatting so they know each other. Then introduce as a gf. Do your parents know you're gay?
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 3:07 pm
isn't it best to just, like, meet them in public before you invite them over? then you could devise a great lie for them to be able to stay with you if your trying to stay in the closet. or you could just meet for a few hours or so in person then have them come over for an hour with your parents, then a week later or so ask if they could stay over. i dunno. is this advice too late, by the way? cuz if so i'm sorry.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 5:29 pm
erm... well, my mum is super psycho about even talking to people i don't know online. it really depends on how lenient your parents are... i'd say introducing them asa friend, than maybe suggeting a vacation where they live or somehting? that's whut i was planning on doing... which was kinda dumb on my part, since i'm never out of my parent's view. but yah, somethin like that i guess
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Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 8:28 pm
Have you met your girlfriend in person before?
How do your parents feel about you having an online girlfriend? Do they even know about her?
Do you talk to her via webcam?
If you do, maybe you could organize a webcam chat with her, you and your parents (and possibly her parents)?
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