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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 9:58 am


I dont really know who to talk to about this. I love my friends but i'm not ready to ask them so here i am asking the people of the guild, PLEASE HELP ME. I need advice. So here it goes....

I'm 14 years old and i've always like guys, me and my friends we talk about guys A LOT. I used to get so many crushes. But lately it like i dont feel the same about guys as i used to. I feel like i'm not really as attracted as guys as i used to be. And so i was thinking about my sexual orientation and i thought mabye i am gay/lesbien. I dont really know how to tell. Is this normal, is it a phase, how can i know for sure? I've never dated a guy or a girl. So is it possible to tell? Advice and help PLEASE!!!
PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:21 am


Well, I can say from personal experience and the experiences of my friends that it is normal. Confusion about your sexual orientation isn't too weird of a thing, especially considering the fact that your body is doing all sorts of weird things with hormones.

If you've always liked boys, then you aren't a lesbian. Maybe you're just slowing down and not noticing boys as much? It's possible you're bi if you're experiencing the same feelings you had towards boys towards girls now?

Either way, the point I'm trying to make, I guess, is that puberty does all sorts of weird things to your mind and body, so just wait it out and see what happens.

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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 8:33 pm


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Well, I can say from personal experience and the experiences of my friends that it is normal. Confusion about your sexual orientation isn't too weird of a thing, especially considering the fact that your body is doing all sorts of weird things with hormones.

If you've always liked boys, then you aren't a lesbian. Maybe you're just slowing down and not noticing boys as much? It's possible you're bi if you're experiencing the same feelings you had towards boys towards girls now?

Either way, the point I'm trying to make, I guess, is that puberty does all sorts of weird things to your mind and body, so just wait it out and see what happens.

Since I'd be saying something along the lines of this, I'll just quote it and agree. razz I've also had those feelings, as well as my friends, so I understand it as well. You could very easily just be curious and settle down again in a few months or so. There's no way to know in such a short period of time. Don't think too much into it, it is perfectly natural. biggrin
PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 6:57 pm


Thanks for the advice.

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