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 Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 8:43 pm
Okay for all of you that don't know me yet, My rp name is Casith pronounced (k-sith) and my name id really like to be called by is fittzzy
okay, latley ive been really really unhappy me and my gf who i love more then anyone else in the world broke up...shes now an ex going on over a month... I dont care how much she denies it I LOVE her... the first few weeks of our 2 month relationship where wonderful nothing bad happened we where prefect then her best friend like a sister began to be obsessively in love with me (she typed 3 pages in size 8 font in word of things she wished she could tell me) and began hurting herself over me...this obviously put strain on me and my girlfriends relationship i spoke to both of them about it and all was okay i thought... then things stopped being the same... when we held hands it was really awkward... we hardly talked anymore... and she dodged any important conversation... then toward the end i ended up being asked by another one of her friends that if my ex (Lily) wasnt here would i go out with the obsessive one (Nicole) (friend that asked was Hillary) i said no she then replied oh nicoles gunna be disapointed... "why? she knows im going out with Lily?" "well yea but she was gunna ask you out..." "Hillary is something gogint o happen with me and Lily?" she then hung up the phone... i then had to talk to Hillaries best friend (who hardley knows Lily) her names hannah who confirmed my fears... she gave me some false info...but other then that the main part was true... we where going to break up... note for 2 days before this happened id been trying to talk to Lily about our relationship and she never returned my calls or my emails so naturally when i talked to her the next day i was PISSED i didnt yell i didnt argue i didnt do anything i pretended everything was okay. then later when we where both on IM i brought it up and she asked who told me and it became this huge fiasco...where she was horrificly pissed at hillary for telling hannah then hillary blamed nicole for influencing Lily to not like me anymore... which naturally only made everyone hate everyone else even more... a few weeks later and everything was okay again noone was mad and noone was really unhappy me and Lily wherent together but w/e
I still Love Lily...
recently i was told she liked someone named brandon
brandons really popular in our school...
Lily isnt
i didnt really worry because they dont know each other at all so i knew Lily wasnt actually serious about him... but i heard this from a friend... a few more days and i noticed Lily was drawing a ton of broken hearts all over her binders and notebooks... i passed her a note saying"why the broken hearts you have a chance with him..."
she replied with "who?"
(i put his initials on the paper...)
and of course it was wrong... she DOES like someone but i dont know who
she told one of her friends the following clues:
"You already know who it is"
"but you dont know you know"
this could actualy refer to anyone... shes had one other ex and his names chris but she HATES him (he went behind her back like 4 times and told terrible things to people about her) im filled with hope that it could be me that she likes again... yet worried that she might be refering to someone else that she IS serious about...what i hated about our break up was that niether of us could ifugre out why we broke up. and when i ask the friends she talks to alot they tell me she broke it off because she simply didnt like you anymore" the funny thing is the amount of time when she sort of dropped our relationship she was spending TONS of time with nicole and if what her friends say is true then she stopped liking me in about 2 nights...this event also happened after she started talking with chris again (who i kind of stole her from, he hate me for it)
now all of this might seem like "oh its just high school drama" well yea it is...but ive lost TONS of sleep over this... i slept from 4:15-5:00 last night the night before i got 25 min. of sleep and the night before 1 hour...after the initial break up i went 3 days with NO sleep then passed out trying to go to bed... I lose sleep really easy
basicly i want advice on getting over an ex.
do you guys think she still likes me
how to get to bed when im this worried
advice on how to get her back
and or advice on how to find out if she still likes me...
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 6:02 pm
Ooh, sorry, dude! You got like no replies on this! Here's my advice:
1. If Lily DOES like you, she'll probably talk to you more, flirt, etc. etc.. You know the drill. OBVIOUSLY you still like her. This should make all of you happy.
2. If she doesn't like you anymore, you really have to understand, and quit losing sleep! It's a thing that isn't easily gotten over, since you went on the Stormrunner of love. xD But anyways. If she likes someone else, just encourage her, be nice to her, etc. and maybe, juuuust maybe, she'll realise what she lost.
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