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 Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 5:15 pm
well in april 29/08 my girl friend broke up with me it was 3 days ago we allmost went out for a hole year she was my life you see i have all most killed my self befor i cut a big gash in my shoulder cause i was depressed but i found meaning in my life i was happy and fully in love with alicia we went out for about a year then she broke up with me .... i am very depressed i stabed my leg twice she does not know i didnt think there was any thing wrong with are relation ship but apperntly i was blind she she was probaly depressed about her dad and i made it worse . i still love her what do i do
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 6:07 pm
Talking to someone about it might help. Try setting up an appointment with your school counsellor, or asking your parents to take you to see a psychologist/therapist/counsellor. Or you can go yourself if you don't want them to know.
It's normal to be down and feeling depressed after you've broken up with someone (or been the one who got broken up with), but it's not a good thing if you're hurting yourself and taking it out on yourself.
If she's having issues with her dad, and she thought there were problems within your relationship, it might've all been too much to handle right now. She may just need some space. If you can, try to be supportive if she talks to you about her dad. Or maybe just take a break from talking to her if speaking with her is too much to handle for you right now.
My very first boyfriend broke up with me after over two years of dating. At the time we broke up, we were both being passive-aggressive with each other, and he was depressed to the point of being suicidal. Although I didn't know it at the time, our relationship problems were contributing to his depression and making the situation worse. I was really upset at the time that we broke up, but in time he got better, which was the most important thing. We are casual friends now smile and that's enough.
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Posted: Mon May 05, 2008 3:58 pm
i am abit better know since i talked about it too 2 difrent counslers but thank you for responding
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Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 11:29 pm
darkecrow i am abit better know since i talked about it too 2 difrent counslers but thank you for responding o when you can't find anyone else, we're here too.
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