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 Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 3:56 pm
So, let's say that after a while (a BIG while) you found someone that you really like. Someone you thought you would never find, someone who makes you feel happy and great about yourself, someone you are starting to like a lot. So you have been dating this person for a bit now, about 3 months or so, and he or she suddenly tells you that he or she loves you and don't wants to waste a minute without you since he or she is planning to move to another place to study(or work). Now, what would you? would you stay in a relationship where you know that at a point, like about the next year, that person will leave you? Or would you stay with him/her ignoring that moment until it hits you? Would you stay with that person knowing that if you keep spending time with them, losing them will be much harder later than leaving them at this point?
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Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 6:05 pm
It depends on the situation really. If I was in that position, and I knew the person I was with absolutely had to move, then I'd do everything in my power to move with her. That's a lot more feasible with me being completely independent rather than stuck living with parents still in high school. It also depends on the distance. If you're just talking like an hour away, that's nothing, but if it's like all the way across the globe, then it's something more serious.
Ask yourself if you could continue the relationship after he moves. If not, then would you consider moving with him?
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