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 Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 9:38 am
OK so I am really torn, Is this scary or sexy? Last night I was at my friends house and she and her boyfriend got into a fight, like really got into it throwing stuff hitting each other on and on. So finally her Dad grabbed a gun and was going to go shoot the boyfriend (I don’t know if he actually would have but sill…) Since I was the only person downstairs at the time of course I tried to talk him out of it. Now I don’t know how many people have tried to talk to an angry dad with a loaded gun but its kina scary, but at the same time I knew he wasn’t going to hurt me and after we talked for a little bit I honestly was really kinda turned on. . . Well long story short(er) we ended up talking all night and I woke up today in the same bed as him.
Alright, reading this back to myself it sounds really sick but I’d like to remind you that I’m old enough for that to be perfectly ok; like two consenting adults right. Also, I’ve been attracted to him for a while anyway and that coupled with the fact that my friends are dumb and I have to parent them all the time so…I guess I needed someone to take care of me for a change.
So tell me honestly, Is that totally crazy and I’m just trying to justify or do you think that was an ok thing to do?
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 2:42 pm
Well... the situation is certainly uncommon (as far as I know, anyway)... And there's always going to be people who look down on something other people do... But, as you're both consenting adults, I'd say it's perfectly fine...
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:16 pm
Meh, I'm too young to give you any real feedback on that kind of stuff...
But if you both consented, then I see no problem with it. Maybe if his daughter found out, that'd be kinda awkward...but not wrong, at least from my point of view.
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:19 pm
I think it's cool, especially if you're into him.
I had a cousin who basically did the same thing. Only, she was arguing with this guy and his friend talked her down. She eventually cheated on the boyfriend she arguing with and went to bed with the guy that had comforted her. She almost married him, too! I wish she would have. Jim was my favorite of her boyfriends....
But, more to the point, even if it's a little complicated, you should follow your heart and all that smut. ;3
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 7:36 pm
Is he married?
If he's not, then there's no problem.
You should also find out if he has feelings for guys, or maybe just a one time deal since he was stressed.
This situation happens with therapists and their patients. The patient will see their therapist as a loving individual and develop feelings for him or her since they have been so helpful, regardless of sexuality. It also happens when two people are working close together on a job or some project, one might develop feelings for the other. More used as an outlet for stress and such like in your situation.
Nevertheless, congratulations. :3
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