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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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 Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:02 pm
ok, so my gf and i just started going out. a couple of our friends don't even know that we're gay, so i told her if it was ok with her to keep it a secret, i would. well, today, she called me all excitedly (cuz we are both so happy and stuff and it sucks to keep it a secret!) to ask if she could tell one of our best friends. i told her it was ok, cuz i had been wanting to as well. well, one of my other friends walked into me and told me to go find my gf with her, cuz she wanted to tell her something and didn't wanna go alone. so i walked around the school, and when i found them, i was just in time to watch as my friend walked away from my gf. so i ran over to ask what happened, and it turned out that my friend is pissed because she didn't know my gf was bi (she knew about me) and she was shocked we were going out.
idk, that's pretty lame though. and then my friend just called me but had to hang up before we could talk. and i dunno if i should worry about my friend and my gf not being friends or if they'll get over it, but for the time being, i'm appalled at my friend's reaction. can't she just be happy that we are? i mean, we've liked each other for some time. can't she get over her problem? ugh. i don't get some people...
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:17 pm
It is like a balloon popping to them as I would see it, a big one.
A lot of the time, it is the parents to blame, the upbringing of the child, forming the child. It is why a lot of the people in my town, including students, are racist.
It is probably best to wait a couple days to let paths of the mind settle, emotions to subside, and your friend to analyze her own self in addition to you and your lover, to balance things out. Right?
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:19 pm
so your friend is okay with you being bi but not ok with you gf being bi?
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 12:31 pm
HEYOH!!! It's Peacewind/IamDifferent
Well my goodness. This has happened to me to. It seems to me that your best friend has a crush on ur gf. That happened to me only i was the one who was being crushed on. Gee...well...just let it settle for a while hun.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 9:30 pm
well, i have good news. my friend called my gf and i and it's all good. idk, i guess it was just shock. but time made it better. luckily.
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