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 Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 3:19 pm
Okay, so I have a boyfriend.
My first, in fact.
We've been dating a little over two weeks.
But, I have a crush on another guy. A HUGE crush.
But, see, me and this guy have talked about it, and we've come to the conclusion that it can't happen. He likes me too, but he's so much older than me (he's 18, I'm 14) and he's never had a long-distance relationship that lasted or ended well. (He lives in Canada, I live in Arkansas, USA.)
And now, I've been feeling guilty, because my boyfriend really likes me, and here I am, crushing on another guy. I mean, I like him too, but I like the other guy more. I don't know what to do!
Sorry, I just needed to say something.
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:55 pm
It's probably really confusing for you right now, so maybe you should reflect on your relationship with your boyfriend. Is he the right guy for you? But if you know that the other guy and you can't ever work out, you should just try to forget about him. Appreciate your boyfriend. You don't miss it until it's gone.
I'm sorry I can't offer you any good advice, but I've never had a boyfriend myself. >.<
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 2:47 am
You have to think, these are only crushes, and nothing to break hearts about.
You have already established that the relationship between you and the other guy can not happen.
You should stick with your boyfriend, eventually your feelings for the other guy will fade out.
If his long distance relationships haven't worked before hand, then it won't work with you either.
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