okay, i'll start from the beginning
when the school started all my current friends were spit up into different groups. we all promised each other that we would be in each others room when we went to a trip the Phili. as the year progressed i started to talk to alot of different people and because of me we started to form this big group of friends. but one particular person didn't want to get the attention off of her and "loose her friends" at the same time.
my friend -i'll call her Meli- wanted to be in my group but i had already promised 2 other people so adding her would have made 4 (only 4 people in each room) I said ok and added her but at the same time she was breaking a promise she made with -the obsessive girl, i'll cal Liz-
Liz's original group was made up of 6 or so people and she made each one promise to be in her room but only 4 are allowed. so, even though she doesn't like it 2+ people had to go.
When Liz found out Meli was rooming with me she blamed me for taking her friend away from her and calls me a "friend stealer".
rolleyes She started to spead rumors about me but it didn't work because no one belives her and my friends know everything about me and would never believe such lies.
I wasn't the only one getting blamed. Meli and Ecca were being targeted as "shady and malicious" and soon other people who had nothing to do with the original fight started to get involved because i brought 4 different Status-Quos from 3 different teams into one large clique.
I ignored Liz for the past 4 month. A person who i've been in fights with 2 years ago -Risa- had also been blamed for taking a friend -Dia-. Risa isn't the type of person who u would want to mess with so of course Liz backed down but because of that incident Risa and i are now talking.During that time she has been telling people that are her "friends" not to talk to me or anyone who is my friend. I ignored it and so did they and my group of friends got bigger but when she's around they can't even say hi. if they do she'll make them turn towards her and start to walk in the other direction and after a while it was starting to piss me off but i held everything inside and i didn't make a scene about it.
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1 weeks ago one of my friends who still stuck with Liz told me that she slamed her head in a locker.
I and VERY protective of my friends so when i heard that i was about to risk the trip and my no-OSS streak and beat her a** for puting a hand her. at lunch that day i couldn't eat and eveyone knew something was wrong so eventually blurted everything that i've been hiding for the past few months. I got to the point were i was crying and so everyone in my group got together and started yelling things to Liz (i was still crying in the bathroom so i didn't see) During the time i was yelling stuff and over exaggerating and my my friend -Adrian- heard it. She went to Dia and asked about it and she said that Liz treats them like property. Liz came up to me and Adrian and said that it wasn't true. Right now i'd believe a friend rather than a person that tells them to stay away from me.
Liz started blaming people again and thought Meli was laughing at her while she was laughing at another person at my table -Tay-. Tay told me that she also couldn't talk to some people without Liz draging them away. I decided that it needed end so i talked to her. Too many lies had been going around at the time for me to believe her so i went around and asked people for their stories and not what other people had told them but still, nothing matched up.
i went back to the person who get her head slamed onto the locker and she told be that she was going to try to get us all kicked out of phili but she didn't know how Liz was going to do that. I started to worry because i didn't know what other people had done to her and how i was going to get everyone out of this mess.
then on Friday afternoon she came up to me and told me that we were going to go to peer mediation. Now i'm extremly freaked out.
1. she used the right words to get my confused "everyone involved has to go" who exactly?
2. If we don't go we'll get a written up and that automatically takes us off the trip so i have to make sure everyone is there.
3. She didn't tell me when
4. She didn't tell me where
5. i know most of my friends well enough to know some aren't gonna go because of their pride and that's EXACTLY what the little b***h wants.
I don't have a clue when it's scedule to be and some are planning not to go to school that day so that they won't have to go. I'm not sure if not going to school is going to save them. So i have to get all of my friends, 2 of Liz that are still talking to me and 5 other people that also have something to do with it to get there at the specific time.
gonk What i don't understand is why she would act like such a 3th grader and think that friends can me "stolen". True friends can't be stolen. I decided to stop trying to convince her to be my friend because now i know it most likely won't happen now that everyone i know hates her. but i need a safe way to deal with this mess and get my friends to understand that the peer mediation can't be avoided and they have to go or else Liz will have the pleasure of seeing them get kicked off the trip.
I know this is kind long and most likely people from my clique that are on gaia will read this. PLS try to understand that I have to get a solution now or else something bad might happen.
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