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Grass is always greener?

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howtheundeadweep

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 1:11 pm


I dumped my former LD Boyfriend to date a guy from my school, much closer.
This were great at first, now they just seem to getting worse. I keep telling myself that we are just going though a rough patch.
He was sweet and romantic and we had so much fun when it began. Now it seems to have really changed and I don't know why.
We are both on break from school and will not see each other for a week at least, and he left my house this morning. He didn't even seem to care, he just seemed in a hurry to get away.
Maybe it was because his friend was picking him up or something, I don't know, but it hurt my feelings.
And now my ex- who I still have slight feelings for, and was always really romantic wants me back and he has been talking to me for a while now.
I think this is another of my the grass is always greener moments and I must just stick it out but I want more opinions.
So tell meh!
PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 1:26 pm


Oh wow, this sounds complicated lol.
I would first confront your current boyfriend, ask him if anythin's wrong, tell him how you've been feeling about the relationship lately. If something doesn't quite go right, or you find that you still have more feelings for your ex boyfriend, you know he's still there.

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howtheundeadweep

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 1:43 pm


Yea it is complicated >.<
Tis evil!
PostPosted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 5:01 pm


I know I don't have much experiance with relationships and your situation is complicated but even thought there are benefits to having a bf at your school you should be with the guy you like more. If you think your better off with you ex and you like him more I think you shuold give him another shot (especialy since, as you put it, he still seems to really like you ^^)

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 3:29 am


Yeah I agree with Emo and everyone, if your Ex is making the effort and talks to you than he sounds like he really cares!! heart
I can't believe the cheek of your current BF, if he's being like that already in the relationship (it's not like you've been together for years and years). Seriously if he says there's nothing wrong when you have a talk about it, I'd defo think about saying Goodbye!
This may sound extreme but who needs this hassel at school? Make him see you worth MORE than that!
GO GIRL!!!
PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 11:32 pm


Pancakes is right on about this one, u gotta go with ur heart. distance is an object that god sometimes puts in our way to challenge love's strength, if u feel u love the LD guy then u gotta test that strength. I do have to ask u an importan question though, why did it end with the LD guy?

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