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 Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 7:28 pm
Last night my fiend came over, all sad and what not. I tried to comfort her, cause I'm her friend. We grew up together by the way. She was like a little sister to me, but then she kissed me for no reason and things got out of hand. I was in the moment and I wake up this morning realizing I just had sex, lost my virginity to my best friend. Who I see as more of a little sister.. I feel like complete, utter s**t. I didn't wake her up, I just kind of got dressed and got on my bike and rode off. She went home, I haven't talked to her yet. I'm guessing she feels kind of weird to. I had to get this out of my system. -drops head on desk- I screwed up.
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:02 pm
There's no reason why this has to be a bad thing as long you two used protection. After all, you two like each other, get along, and communicate well, right? So what's so bad about bringing sex into the relationship? Many people have sex outside of the "conventional committed relationship."
I would say the next step is to talk about it. Make sure you're both on the same page. If you don't want to date her, make sure she knows that. You two can decide whether you want to be friends with benefits or just have that time be the last time. It's entirely up to you two. Just make sure you use protection every time, and make sure she is seeing an ob-gyn.
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:25 pm
I am so in the same boat as you are my friend. Things just seem to be at that point where I no longer know what to do. You feel like at that point it was right and that you were doing the right thing. When its all said and done it feels like things were so very wrong and that you never should have done it. Just look forward and try and figure things out from there. Stop and listen to your heart not your head.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:54 am
personally i would talk to her my gf says you need sa hug sooo... -hugs-
soo yea tlk and see where it goes you may get over it maybe youll get a relationship OR youll burn... thats likely but sos everythin else so see what happens BUT YOU MUST TALK TO HER
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 3:07 pm
i would definitely try talking to her
wouldn't you feel even worse if she thought you were just avoiding her and that you just used her?
of course we know you didn't
but she may think so
tell her you're really confused about what happened and that you enjoy being her friend and you don't want that to change
she probably feels confused about it too
so just talk to her
sad i hope everything works out
i agree that you need a hug *hugs*
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:21 pm
Our only weapons are the guns of youth.
It's only time before they tighten the noose.
Then the hunt will be on for you. Talking to her may be the best idea.
You need to move past the awkwardness. ~♥•
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