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Pure Vampyre

PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 11:10 am


My boyfriend has asked me to post in the forums here what he posted in another, so called, "mature" Guild. Well it turns out that they are not as mature as you would think they should be.
So he has asked me to post the same thing in this Guild, because he knows that, here, everyone is mature enough to give an answer other than " Leave your girlfriend.. Then you don't have to deal with her mum" scream

Yes, this is about my mother again.

Please tell us your opinions?


Assasin Altair
Hi guys/girls

we live in the uk

I am a respectable bloke.
I have done nothing wrong towards her<<(refering to my girlfriends mum and my girlfriend). but her mum seems to have something against me or...dunno.

I am an "amazing guy my girlfriend says" lol i always didn't like myself but thast me for you lifes been tough on me and i grow up properly and respecting women and anyone around me.

My girlfriend is 17 and i'm 18.
I have been going out with my girlfriend happily for the last 9 months.

She moved 90miles to live near me so i didn't have to go up there every week just to see her.

But now her mums being such a b***h she treats my girlfriend like s*** when shes at home, doesn't feed her properly or anything.

List of things her mum does.

Shes a fat cow.
Steals all my girlfriend money she get for work
spends 150 pounds on food every two weeks
has a go at my girlfriend all the time
says nasty things to my girlfriend about me.

I went over the other day to see my girlfriend because she was crying so much.

Once i got there her mum said i'm off to bed so ok you think shes going to bed but no..
she comes back down about 5 mins later.. shewas supposed to be getting my girlfriends younger sister off to sleep what she had said to her is "i am just taking this plate down back up in a moment darling"

Me and my girlfriend were jsut sitting talking on the sofa.
Her mum walks over and starts having a huge rant on how my girlfriend should get a job.. well my girlfriend has one but because she has disablities she can't do it.. (her mum got her a job some where which was standing up and crouchnig and mopping and stuff for 7 hours at a time,, my girlfriend can't do that because of her problems...you know why her mum wanted her to get that job?? shes a fat cow and was thinknig of herself..

she got her working in mcdonalds O.o free food for her thats good she thinks. I HATE HER.. she got my girlfriend a job she can't do because of her disablities and didn't care that she would be in so much pain after an hour let alone 7.. see why i am annoyed...

why would you do that to your own child after.. she had a go at my girlfriend she looked to me and said "can i have a go at you?" i looked at her confused and thought sicne when do you ask to have a go at someone so that throw me way off i was like what?...my girlfriend said no mum you can't.. i was just keeping my motuh shut because if i said anything it would have been nasty i was holding my girlfriends hand and trying to stay calm in my head because i could have messed it all up and stood up and shouted F&%$ Off. I have been brought up to respect others.. but ohh she rubs me up the wrong way..

Then she went on at my girlfriend again in front of me...after an hour and a half she finnaly shut up and left and went to bed.. YES! WOo at last but no it was not that great my girlfriend was crying again and i was angry as hell with her mum and just wanted to kill her >.< WHAT SHOULD I DO!

(EDIT)

Ohh and another thing..
Her mums always saying that my girlfriend has to be independant and this sh** i think she doesn't know what that means.
Mygirlfriend after all that talking we went into the kitchen to get drinks nad food.
Ohh my girlfriend has to buy her own food so she brought stuff to put on her toast and brought her own food as she has to..
It really up my girlfriend to make toast and want choclate spread on it and find her mum and her lil sister had been helpping them selves to it.. and it was an empty jar of choclate spread.. her mum didn't even bother getting her another pot. this made my girlfriend cry. >.< its not sad before you say.

Her mum told her when she got cash she could save up to get a car but she keeps stealing every penny from my girlfriend O.o... independance.. and my girlfriend spent err 30 pounds on me and her mum had a go at her for spending it when its my girlfriends money... she is so annoying..

And when ever she likes she dumps her lil sister on my girlfriend and orders ehr to look after her and stuff...liek the other day my girlfriends mum "had" to do her website building? so she dumpped my girlfriends lil sis on her. Why you ask... her mum would be sitting at the pc and donig this job?..and my girlfriends lil sis about less than a meter in front of her on the sofa watchnig tv why does she need looking atfer?"

My girlfriend was working a few days ago and she saw some people that are nice and she knew.. but they knew the people my girlfriend are moving away from.. my girlfriend has problems with her family alot i won't go into detail but these people would tell where my girlfriend was..basicly my girlfriend moved here to hide get away as well as move closer to me..she asked her mum if she could quite the job.. she said no O.o What thats just dangerous for my girlfriend see her mum doesn't care.

And her mums also always going on about all the money problems and blaming them on my girlfriend.. but they moved for not jsut me and her mum always says stuff about it. But O.o she picked the most expecnsive house in teh whole place O.o Why? dunnoo shes screwed up ni teh head O.o its not my girlfriends fault Grrr i'm so mad at her (reffering to my girlfriends mum)

And her mum also makes out that she has more disablities than my girlfriend and how much worse they are.. all i see is

Shes
a lazy cow.
Doesn't have a job.
lies.
goes out to bars and s"*% and says guys were chatting her up and rubs it in my girlfriends face like she cares.
and shes always moaning about money problems yes.. but shes goes to the bar and spends 5double shots at 7 pounds each gets drunk and stuff.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 11:59 am


Does your boyfriend have a job as well? If so, you two should split the bill for your personal needs.

Does your mom work?

Everyonebutyou


WinterBean

PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 12:19 pm


Hmmm... (I'm going to reply like if I was talking to your boyfriend just to make it easier :3)
well...
Maybe you could avoid her mom, together?
Like you could spend time at your house rather than her house,
or go to a park and hang out,
or something.

But do you have have a job?
Because like Everyone said,
you could maybe split the bill,
or you could put up with her just for a while longer and save up your money,
so you could move in together?

PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 12:26 pm




There's nothing you can do, really, Vamp's Boyfriend. It sounds like Vamp's mother has a lot of issues, and that she takes the majority of them out on Vamp, herself. The two of you should look into seeing if Vamp can get some kind of disability money from the government, or something along those lines. If she can, then you should save money until you can move in together. Let's face it - Vamp's mother is probably never going to stop trying to make her daughter's life miserable. The best thing you can do is just not even give her the opportunity by moving out of her life forever.



Sailor_Chibi


Pure Vampyre

PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 1:51 pm


I don't have a job at the moment because i'm in the second year of my college course thats rubbish.
And her mum doesn't have a job because shes scum and makes out she got it worse than everyone I HATE HER!
PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 4:02 pm


Now now, you shouldn't speak badly of someone's mother...
(But this chick really is sort of a b***h, isn't she?)

PV's boytoy, maybe you could get PV to move in with you? I mean, even if you live with your parents. They might let her stay in a guest room or something for a while, y'know?

If you can't get her out of there immediately, then yeah. Do as everyone else here has said: get a job, save money, rent an apartment or something with PV. I know about moms like that... Mine's pretty bad too. Not that bad, poor VP. But yeah, the best thing you can do for her is get her out of that house.

BubbleBerry Tea

Liberal Witch


Ethanol Soda!

PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 4:30 pm


Well VP, how long is it until your next birthday?
Because as soon as you turn 18, you can get out of that house and get away from that woman.
That's what it sounds like you need to do, because I think that all hell will break loose if you leave now. You're mom will raise hell and you're two families will probably clash even more than they already do.
So as a present to yourself for your 18th birthday, move the ******** out. Your mom is crazy, and I'm sorry, but like I said, I think all hell will break loose if you leave now.
I'm really sorry about your job and everything and how much of a reaping b***h your mother is, but, I don't think there's much you can do. Just wait for that glorious day when you turn 18.
I'm sorry that I'm not much help. Just stand up to your mother, and tell her you know what's right.
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