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Snow White Jinx
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:25 pm


Yet another stress added to my life. My boyfriend wants to move to Bethel Island stare
Most of you don't know where that is, it's an hour or so away from where I live right now. And he wants to move like now, as in he's moving our would-be roommates in this very second... My problem is that would put me far away from school and about 3 hours from where I want to work in Berkeley. My car is a P.O.S. it can't handle freeway speeds very well and this place is at least a 1 hour freeway drive away so I couldn't take the car if I moved and then I'd be stuck either at home in the middle of freakin nowhere all day or I'd be stuck at school all day and that would blow because my class only lasts about 3-4 hours. I like the house, it's water front properiety. I love my would-be roommates. I just don't like the drive or the area. So I don't know what to do. Everyone I've talked to so far says stay at home with my family, at least for 1 more month until schools out. But if I get a job in Berkeley than it would suck to have to spend a total of 5-6 hours just to get to work and back each day. sweatdrop But not moving in could ruin my 4 year relationship. What would you guys do? Despite my long relationship I'm kinda thinking of staying out here, even if it means letting my man go. I'm just so confused and my FINAL final exams are coming up in 3 weeks so all this stress is killing me.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 6:56 pm


If he knew that you want to stay with your family or that you have finals soon and etc, he should be able to understand about waiting 1 more month since you guys have been goin out for like. 4 yrs. I mean. driving 5529058295 hrs (exageration of course lol) for a 3-4 hr. class? lol

My logic usually is (since I realize I care a whole lot more about school than friends =/) this: "hmmm. I'm ruining a 4 yr. relationship. OR. I'm ruining a finals which I've been working up to since 5yrs. old. Hm." I'd usually stick with school.



BUT THAT'S JUST ME. I don't know if I'll ever last long if I ever have my first bf. >.<
Look, my very accurate personality test says I'm an INTJ!

neverusingthisagain15


Lady Sickness
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 10:13 pm


To be honest, I think you should stay at least until you're done with school and then decide if that's the move you wanna make.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 3:16 pm


After talking with friends and family about it I decided I'm staying. If it ends the relationship than oh well. I need to look out for me and my future. Spending 2 days out at the house sent me into a depression, I was away from everyone I knew and if I wanted to call my mom to come rescue me I couldn't have even given her directions. So I've made up my mind. I'm staying where I'm happy and where I have a large support system of family and friends.

Snow White Jinx
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neverusingthisagain15

PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 5:40 pm


goodie. =D
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