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So I think I likeLove this guy.
This guy...
This guy named Dakota.
For 2 and a half months we've been dating.
For 2 and a half months we've been a beautiful apparatus.

Today, ...okay, yesterday but I haven't slept yet so it's technically today for me.
We went to wal mart...and screwed around for an hour or so waiting for my hair appointment to get my hair cut.
Yeah, he hates it when girls have short hair. (There's pics of my new hair in the PYP thread)
He loved my long hair.
But he loves me, loves me for who I am, even though my hair is short. He loves me, and still thinks I look positively great. Tells me i'm beautiful, tells me with respect, and not as a sexual thing. <3
But seriously, we were sitting at subway, and he had told me he wrote me a song, and he'd give it to me saturday, and he handed it to me today at subway. smile

I've never had a guy write a song for me. Never had a guy give me roses. Never had a guy tell me I was beautiful.

But here's the song, it's really sweet...

Tell me one more time, those lies I love to hear.
So that I can believe that there's more to life than pain.
'Cause when I see you it makes my world that much brighter.
And when I hear your voice it sounds like my own Angel sayin' my name.
*
So say it again, say it to me.
Tell me you love me, and want me to stay, here with you on this bed.
Say those words that I want to believe.
*
When we start to fight, and there's tears in your voice,
My world falls apart, and I just wanna die.
'Cause when you cry my world turns gray with clouds,
And I don't wanna sleep 'till I see you smile again.
*
So say it again, say it to me.
Tell me you love me, and want me to stay, here with you on this bed.
Say those words that I want to believe.
*
So whisper those words I need to hear,
Cause I want to believe in you and me,
That there is more to life than pain...
[End]

So it sounds depressing, you know? And just as an FYI, we've only had one fight, but it was my fault and I cried and bawled and bawled and asked for his forgiveness over a million times, even if he had said it was okay and that he forgave me.
And he kind of flip turned upside down the words in my opinion. Because i'm always telling him that it's a lie that he loves me so I can hear it one more time...And he knows that. I think that's why he said the lies thing.
xD Either way, he's a sweetheart when you really break it down!


But seriously, let's have discussion here:

Discuss:
Relationships, when do you say the "I love you?"
Love, do you believe in it?
Poetry, Gifts, Things they say to you to make you feel alive
Romantic things your lover has done for you

When you feel it =P If you don't feel it, but don't want to be rude, you can say 'I love you, too.' whenever someone says that they love you. Hehe. I recommend saying it when you feel it, though.

Very much so. I've been in love twice. Once was puppy love, but it was still love, and I still think about him occassionally. Then there's Gavin, who I put in his own league. I loved him, very, very much. If it's possible for nearly 5 years online, I'm sure it's possible in real life as well lol.

Poety actually makes me feel a bit awkward, really anything that they could read outloud to me, would make me awkward. If someone wanted to give me a poem or song or something, they'd HAVE to be like your guy, and just give it to me in note-form lol. Gifts - I love them. They have to be the right kind, of course, but I never critisize people for the gifts they give me. I pretty much love anything that's from the heart As for the things that make me feel alive, I do love it when anyone tells me something positive, not just a boyfriend. But it IS nice hehe.

...Lover? LOVER? Cherri are you having sex? >O<;; *squack squack squack* ANYWAY =o I don't know that Gavin ever 'did' anything romantic, but he did say a lot of things that made my heart melt. Personal things lol.