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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 9:18 pm
im lonely, but im to frightened of people in the real world to talk to them. on top of that, im just not brave. and i dont mingle well. but i love to talk... i just dont know what to do. and i've heard the whole, just step forward and speak up thing, but i just CANT. i cant initiate anything. i just cant
crying emo cheese_whine
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 8:59 pm
aw, why are you afraid to talk to people?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:23 am
oh dear.... that's a shame! are you naturally shy or have circumstances made you feel that way?
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:23 am
people scare me for some reason, i dont know y. and im both naturally and by raise, a shy person
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 12:37 pm
Well my friend, I don't know what to say about this, all I can do is full back on my own experiences when I've felt very uncomfortable around people. Maybe it's the people themselves? Personally I don't fit well with very forward, confident, full of themselves people... infact I avoid them like the plague as if truth be known they probably scare me too deep down. I try and be around like-minded people where I can relax and be myself.
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Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 1:56 pm
xXEnglishMummieXx Well my friend, I don't know what to say about this, all I can do is full back on my own experiences when I've felt very uncomfortable around people. Maybe it's the people themselves? Personally I don't fit well with very forward, confident, full of themselves people... infact I avoid them like the plague as if truth be known they probably scare me too deep down. I try and be around like-minded people where I can relax and be myself. see, this would work for me, if it werent for the fact that i am usually a very unusual person... i havent been able to find like minded ppl. only ppl that are enough like-minded for me to hang out with. ive known my mom since i was concieved, and i still have problems being around her. my best friend, gods i love her, but even with her i am always so uncomfortable. i just dont kno what to do, or what to say. and im always so full of conflicting thoughts, desires, personality traits... i just dont know what to listen to, what to do. im lost in a world of my own making... and sometimes im not so sure i want to get out...
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Chippy the Vampire Slayer
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 10:47 pm
Well u have to get out of ur world sweetie. Its a nice place to visit but not to live in. Ok im sure youve heard the whole public speaking thing,picture them in their underwear, in a way its all about how u picture someone thorugh ur own eyes that gives u a presence about them. The next time you appraoch someone i want u to picture them- and i know this sounds crazy but it just might work- as the only person u really feel comfortable with...yourself. In a way, tryin lookin at the world and making it more like ur own. Eventually if it works you will overcome the fear you have and see the world isnt that scary. U have to look at everyone as the same thing, human.
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Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 12:33 pm
well i know how you feel! when i was young i could never talk to anyone. and if someone asked me my name i would be on the brink of crying.
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actually... it's a bit embarrassing now that i think about it...
up to this day i'm still not good at talking to people... well, that's if i don't know the person.
Trust me, it might be tommorow of in 10 years, but you will branch out and talk to people. It happens to everyone.
don't be pressured by people who say "just say hi "or "it so easy just speak up". i know it's not that easy. Those people grew up differently than you and they don't understand how it is to be you so listen to your heart, in the real world that's the only thing you can trust.
take it at your own pace. you'll find someone who are easy to talk to and wants to speak to you as well. and don't push urself too hard.
someday you can be comfortable talking and it will come a bit easier.
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 8:46 pm
OhMaGawd!!! I tink I've found my longlost twin X3
no, seriously, I have the same problem.
how I patched it up --> I found one person, singled them out, got them alone, asked them things about what they liked, told them I liked the same stuff, then told them I lieyed at first after being friends for 3 years and we had such good times because of those lieys that we are still friends.
also letting other people approch me and telling them.... xp
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