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 Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 11:28 pm
My partner and I had sex for the first time yesterday and though I enjoyed it, it was hella painful, so I have a few questions...
-How does one know if they are allergic to latex?
We used a condom, and it could just be that we will need to use lube next time, but is there usually a feeling or some visual reaction that will let me know if I'm allergic?
-Are some guys just too big?
...or mabey it just seemed like it for my first time. He is 8 inches long. Was it my nerves and lack of lube, or is my v****a "too small"?
-Does the v****a stretch out semi-permanently?
Is sex always going to be as painful as it was the first time, or does it get easier?
-How do I know when he's gone in too far?
Is a slight hurting pinching feeling normal or is he penetrating into my uterus?
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 10:31 am
1. I don't know much about latex allergic reactions since I have never had one. You can try non-latex condoms or talk to your ob-gyn about it though. Just be aware that latex is best for STD protection. So if you go without the latex, you might want to have your partner tested.
2. Your v****a is probably not too small, and he is probably not too big. However, it certainly might feel like your v****a is too small if you're tense and not lubricated properly. Use a water-based lubricant next time.
3. Sex does not permanently stretch out your v****a, and it should never be painful, even the first time. If you are well lubricated and relaxed, you should not be feeling any pain. If you do still feel pain, you need to talk to your ob-gyn about it.
4. For most people there is no such thing as "too far." That's because the v****a expands a great deal when we're in the mood. After that, we have a cervix that keeps anything larger than sperm from being able to travel past the v****a. That means he's not going into your uterus.
However, some women do have a low cervix, and our cervix actually moves throughout the month getting lower or higher. So some women do notice pain during sex if the p***s hits the cervix. If you are one of those women, ask your partner not to go in as deep or try positions that don't allow deep penetration.
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 10:20 am
yea o as she said but if the pain contines do speak to your obgyn
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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 10:38 am
yes as lorien (in different words) said your v****a tenses if you tense therefore if you were nervous that may have tensed your v****a making it more painful!
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:42 pm
If I Go Crazy... 
Well.
If it's your first time EVER.
It's going to hurt.
It does for most girls.... Then Will You Still Call Me Superman?
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:15 pm
Heterosexual Fa gg ot If it's your first time EVER. It's going to hurt. It does for most girls. Actually, the whole "sex is supposed to be bloody and painful the first time" thing is just a myth. The first time should not hurt. If sex hurts, whether it's the first time or not, it's usually simply due to not being lubricated enough. So it really pays to do your homework before having sex. If all girls knew about sex and their body before becoming sexually active, they could all just buy a water-based lubricant right from the start. Then pain during sex would not be as common. If sex hurts even when you're lubricated and relaxed, you need to talk to an ob-gyn about it.
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:42 am
Pretty much if you are allergic to latex it might not show up the first time that you have sex with a condom.
It took about three weeks or so until I found out.
I noticed that I was kind of sore in that area looked down and it looked exactly like hives that you get anywhere else except for they were down there. LOL.
I made my boyfriend take me to Planned Parenthood and they told me that it was just a latex allergy.
Haha; I was scared though; I thought that I had some kind of strange STD. D:
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