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Hundertwasser

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 7:52 pm


i asked my bf to give me oral, but he feels uncomfortable with the hairs and the smell... is there a way to reduce the smell? also i've trimmed the hairs but it gets really itchier and i'm scared to take it all off... ingrown hairs are terrible and i'm scared of waxing sad it's such a sensitive area! tips?
PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 8:49 pm


Hundertwasser
i asked my bf to give me oral, but he feels uncomfortable with the hairs and the smell... is there a way to reduce the smell? also i've trimmed the hairs but it gets really itchier and i'm scared to take it all off... ingrown hairs are terrible and i'm scared of waxing sad it's such a sensitive area! tips?
He probably feels uncomfortable because he doesn't want to do that. Some men can't stand doing that or can't, same goes for women who don't or can't stand to do it for their BF. I wouldn't try and have him give you oral, unless you have gave it to him.

Valgex


Hundertwasser

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 9:18 pm


i have already given him oral... he tells me that it's just that that makes him uncomfortable, because he would want to give me back the same
PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 10:05 pm


Like Val, I am thinking maybe your guy just doesn't want to give it to you. People have smells and hair. That's normal and natural. It's nothing he should feel uncomfortable about unless he isn't actually ready for sexual activity in the first place.

Healthy vaginas have a smell. That's just the way it is. The smell and taste can take a little while to get used to, but if he never does it, he isn't going to get to used to it. xp

I don't blame you one bit for not wanting to remove your pubic hair. I find it itchy and uncomfortable too. I don't shave or trim my pubic hair at all. It's never gotten in the way of oral sex for me. Most women enjoy clitoral stimulation during oral sex. The hair generally grows on the labia. That means the labia and hair can easily be held out of the way to access the clitoris during oral sex.

Either way, you absolutely should not feel like you have to change your body that is natural and fine the way it is to meet unrealistic expectations. If he wants you to have a hairless v****a that smells like peaches, I'd say that's just too bad for him. xp He needs to get over it.

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